Having trouble with transition from one activity to another

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20 Feb 2011, 2:39 am

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Does anyone else get called lazy because of this?


My dad used to call me lazy and selfish because of this....now I just seem to continue his abuses in my head.

Anbuend.....seems like you have it worse than I do in some aspects, I did not think this was possible...Do you use a wheel chair for transition problems??

Verdandi,...I often find myself doing the same with changing tasks. Right now I have to help my mom clean her room....I seem to be imoblized by some unseen force to get much of anything done.

Rabbitears.....that would drive me batty being switched around like that and an insensitive boss on top of that would be pure hell...I hope you have a more suitable job for your needs

Bluefins....Thanks for the link! and I will try heating up the bathroom first....good idea


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20 Feb 2011, 11:09 am

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Rabbitears.....that would drive me batty being switched around like that and an insensitive boss on top of that would be pure hell...I hope you have a more suitable job for your needs


Thanks. I'm looking out for something better. And yes, it was "pure hell".


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20 Feb 2011, 4:35 pm

Thanks, Bluefins, for that link! It was really interesting. I´ve been thinking about this problem lately....I definitely have this inertia thing, to some degree. I tend to do fine when I make a routine out of the things I need to do. It also helps to have a break, maybe a cup of tea and a "wind down" between activities. I get stressed when I have to do too many different activities in one day.

My biggest problem is starting new things, or when I want a certain result, but have trouble figuring out how to begin....maybe I get overwhelmed with all of the steps involved, so I psych myself out and don´t even start....then feel guilty for not doing anything....and so on and so on....

Anyway, I recognized myself in some of those descriptions in the article, so I´ll try some of the solutions that were mentioned.

jojobean- good luck! Sorry I don´t have much advice.


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20 Feb 2011, 4:45 pm

ditto the OP.



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20 Feb 2011, 6:35 pm

I use the chair for a combination of reasons, at this point largely a muscle condition, and then also rapid fatigue and a motor condition among other things. The reason I have such extreme trouble with this is the motor condition (sometimes known as autistic catatonia) which also makes it hard to use a lot of body parts at once and I can freeze up for extended periods. I wasn't using the chair specifically for the transition problems but I found it greatly helped with them as well as various cognitive issues I didn't know were as bad as they were until I suddenly wasn't having to concentrate on walking as often. I still of course can have trouble getting in and out of the chair but have some tricks to trigger my body into that movement. Having increased trouble with transitions is pretty normal with this condition.


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20 Feb 2011, 8:25 pm

I have drugs to help with this.

It also helps writing down a list and ticking each task off.

I still can feel uncomfortable with transitioning from one task to another but then the discomfort decreases as I get into the next task. And again become unable to stop.


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20 Feb 2011, 9:22 pm

I have this issue when tired.


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20 Feb 2011, 11:17 pm

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I have drugs to help with this.

It also helps writing down a list and ticking each task off.

I still can feel uncomfortable with transitioning from one task to another but then the discomfort decreases as I get into the next task. And again become unable to stop.


what medication helps with it??


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20 Feb 2011, 11:37 pm

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I use the chair for a combination of reasons, at this point largely a muscle condition, and then also rapid fatigue and a motor condition among other things. The reason I have such extreme trouble with this is the motor condition (sometimes known as autistic catatonia) which also makes it hard to use a lot of body parts at once and I can freeze up for extended periods. I wasn't using the chair specifically for the transition problems but I found it greatly helped with them as well as various cognitive issues I didn't know were as bad as they were until I suddenly wasn't having to concentrate on walking as often. I still of course can have trouble getting in and out of the chair but have some tricks to trigger my body into that movement. Having increased trouble with transitions is pretty normal with this condition.

That is a perfect example of the bodymind which is a concept recently discovered after the discovery of brain cells in the body itself (outside of the brain) I suggest that you read the works of Christine Northrop, most importantly, “Women’s body, women’s wisdom” She talks a lot about the science of how the body and mind are one and how they create and overcome illness. She is a freakin genius.


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20 Feb 2011, 11:44 pm

jojobean wrote:
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I have drugs to help with this.

It also helps writing down a list and ticking each task off.

I still can feel uncomfortable with transitioning from one task to another but then the discomfort decreases as I get into the next task. And again become unable to stop.


what medication helps with it??

Stimulants. Ritalin to be more precise.


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21 Feb 2011, 12:03 am

Ya I take adderal for same reason....it helps some cuz without it, my mind is a puddle of mush....but it does not touch the transition issue thing. I am going to try to extersize before doing my work, maybe that might help.


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16 Nov 2011, 3:16 am

People with autism need treatment beacause they adapt to change.



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23 Feb 2019, 4:16 am

I do this as well. I’m horrible with procrastinating and “switching gears”. Have been my whole life. The cards idea is similar to what i do. I always have a small memo pad in my back pocket and a pen clipped to my front. I am taking notes and making lists all day long. I go through them crazy fast. I dont always get through everything, but it helps a lot to make the lists. I never really associated my procrastination with my autism until i read this post. You actually just helped shed some light on something i struggle with. Thank you for that.



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23 Feb 2019, 4:05 pm

Same here. I have alot of projects at home waiting to be done. I procrastinate because my wife always interrupts me when I do get started. It totally derails me, so I never start. Fortunately my job is a little more understanding.


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24 Feb 2019, 7:29 am

I can relate to this a lot. I can spend days doing one thing, and get so good at it I can perfect something, but I struggle immensely when changing from one task to another. Everything you mentioned, but mostly doing smaller or unnecessary things, rather than more important tasks, because the reasoning behind doing larger tasks is more immediately obvious.



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08 May 2019, 12:47 pm

Oh yes! The process of "shifting-gears" sometimes presents difficulties. Other times, the opposite situation of transitioning from one activity to another too quickly.

Generally, I'm able to "maintain that balance" - yet other times the process of "maintaining that balance" can feel like a cumbersome, confusing process........anything but a balance!