Do some words/phrases make you cringe?

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The words I hate the most are "poop" and "pimple". The meanings don't bother me, but the double Ps in them are just awful to my ears. Whenever I talk about those things, I always say "crap" and "zit" instead.

I hate the words 'poop' and 'tease'. I also hate another word that escapes me right now.

The phrase 'We're doing everything/the best we can.' annoys me.

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Lesbian - it sucks when you are one and you can't stand the word.

Any accusatory or dismissive statement that includes the combination of the two words try and harder. As in: "You could do it if you'd just try harder" Or "You're not trying hard enough".

Those phrases are, what's the American way of putting it? Them's fightin' words? Because using those phrases on me will cause a fight. Almost every single time someone has used those two words in that manner to me it's been to criticize my performance on things that are incredibly hard to me and easy for them, when I've been trying so hard it was slowly draining my health and sanity. That's not a good situation in which to make light of someone's efforts even if said efforts haven't proven fully successful. Which is why I never told them they just needed to try harder when they STILL could not grasp how to use the Z axis in 3d studio Max after what seemed like an eternity of hogging the instructor's time.

One of several I don't like is "veggies."

I hate cutesy nicknames and words.

And yes, this does include "aspie" and "autie." It also includes words like tummy, any cutesy word for body parts or bodily functions, nicknames. I can't really bring myself to use terms of endearment with anyone, let along giving them nicknames. I have adopted some slang, which softened the edges of my otherwise formal speech, but I also avoid so much it's hard to say how I come across.

Are we talking about cringing at word or phrases due to something inherent about them that we can't quite put a finger on, or simply because we don't like their physical sound or they hold some sort of negative personal significance to us? Those are two very different things.

"I'm sorry you feel that way." EURRRRRRRGH.

"My hat's off to you". This saying bugs me because nobody who says this wears a hat. Never asked for your hat in the first place. The people who speak this phrase should say that they acknowledge that I'm overcoming hardships with persistence and determination.

Drive Hammered, Get Nailed. One cannot effectively drive with a hammer smashed into their head; multiple blunt force hits to the head would cause too much blood loss. And where do nails come into play, unless the hammer pounded the nails into the drivers' head?

"Slow and Steady wins the race". The irony just stops my thinking entirely. You can't win any type of race while going slow.

Most TV Ads in general. Got Milk? No, I don't. Beef isn't for dinner, and won't be, seeing as I don't eat red meat. Is the lack of sex drive due to Low-T... are ya tryin' ta soun' gangsta?

There are so many more to list, but that'd take too much effort.

The recent (last 5 years or so) trend in the use of the word "passion", especially by presenters at the BBC who really should know better.

It is both cringe worthy and infuriating at the same time to hear people say "I'm so passionate about..."

The word should be used in the sexual or religious sense but no other. Instead it is attributed to the most mundane things. I almost foam at the mouth with rage.

What is wrong with "I really like..." or "I enjoy..." ?

lol

Similarly, here in the US the word "love" gets thrown around too much. In my opinion, it should only be attributed to things which bring about strong feelings in people, like family members, pets, romantic partners, religious figures or even special interests. Instead people use it to talk about things they mildly enjoy, such as McDonald's fries for example. When people use the word so much, it kind of loses its impact when you want to talk about people or things you truly do love.

Also, I had no idea that using the word "passion" to describe things people enjoy makes some people so upset. I sometimes use the word as a substitute for "special interest" or "obsession", since for me the term "special interest" implies that an autistic person's interests are somehow superior to an NT's, which I don't believe. I used to use the word "obsession" a lot, but some people have pointed out that it causes confusion with OCD. My mom once said of my special interests, "You're not obsessed, you're just passionate." That's when I started using the word "passion" to describe my interests. I sincerely didn't know that it upsets people.

I think that's similar to my dislike of words like "awesome", even though I use them sometimes because I think that's the proper thing to say.

Pretty much nothing that people say is awesome is actually awesome.

I'd say this qualifies, though:

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Don't worry about it, that's the only time I've ever heard someone having that issue with the word. Don't think that you've been unwittingly annoying people your whole life doing that or anything.

I am also bugged by the phrase "I could care less".
Also "irregardless". I can't concentrate when someone says that word; my mind wants to disregard everything they're saying.

I am, on the other hand, very fond of the word "cake", and I swear it's not just because I like cake! I like to say the word and hear it. I like the "k" sounds at each end.
Also, whenever I hear someone on television say a word that isn't often used, I get all happy and point it out to my spouse. Sometimes it gets me thinking about the meaning and origin of the word, and I miss what's going on in the story for a minute.

I'm sure there aren't many who are upset by it, but it does annoy me when words are used incorrectly, as jargon or in a "trendy" sense. "Passion" is the latter and is used with such frequency by the media here in the UK that it sometimes seems that a day can't go by without hearing it a dozen times or more.

Other things which have crept out of the BBC and permeated our language are:

Islamist - what the hell is that? The religion is Islam, its adherents are Moslem's.
Jihadist

Similar stupid phrases (which belong in the jargon category) are:

Joined up thinking
Blue sky thinking
Roll out
Tranche
Holistic

I must stop before I boil over.