hill-o-beans wrote:
i think all minorities (ethnics, gay) feel resentment at the bigger group "as a whole" , even if they can like individual people in the group.
Yeah, I think that happens within all minorities, although of course not every single person in the minority feels that way. It's just that when some other kind of person has more power overall than another kind of person, it breeds resentment from those who are "underneath" them. And some people express that resentment by acting like they're superior.
So I understand how it happens. I don't have to like it, however. I don't think it's as damaging as when some NTs hate
us, because they have a lot more power to damage our lives than we have to damage theirs. So when we do become resentful, it's a sort of impotent resentment that usually can't go very far to actual destructiveness.
That said, I really don't like it when people act like NTs are inferior. I mean, it's one thing when it's satire, to sort of kick people out of their complacency. But it's another thing when it's true hatred. I think I'm the person who actually coined the word "autistic supremacist" to describe that kind of behavior, and I coined it because I really don't like it. I don't think it helps anyone. I believe nonautistic people and autistic people -- frankly, all kinds of people -- are equal in value.
I also don't like it when people act like the word NT has to be pejorative. It doesn't. It's never pejorative when I use it, and that's probably because I picked the word up at a time when it was
never pejorative, over ten years ago. I don't actually prefer using the word, but sometimes it slips out. And it's
very difficult for me to correct and rearrange my language to make it square with however other people seem to think it has to be used. So it's very hard for me to not use it when it does pop up. So I hate when people act like just because I use the word then I must hate them. That's not what the word was intended for and I refuse to let it be defined by autistic supremacists.
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