Who generally annoys you more?

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Both can annoy me equally.

Depending on my mood, everyone can be annoying, myself included. In fact, I'm probably the most annoying person I've ever known.

Everybody annoys me

me too

NTs? My mom and stepfather, conversationalists to a fault. Being quiet is an abnormal trait to them. They also have an unmovable opinion of what normal is. That is, like them.

Why not ask what specific types of behavior annoy rather than generalizing to categories of people?

ruveyn

More specifically, I have a major problem with narrow mindedness, thickheadedness, and a person generally not taking no for an answer/believing me when I say something unless I lecture them or have an episode.

As examples of narrow mindedness I can't stand people who just say "people in this group (race, gay,etc.) are evil". A specific example of narrow mindedness I can think of is a guy my friends and I purposefully freaked out b/c he was saying that nudity is a sin and that masturbation/porn are innapropriate (on a COLLEGE campus... its kinda part of general college life ). This guy is on the spectrum and has made me ashamed to admit I'm on the spectrum... all my friends have flat out said they prefer me b/c I don't pass judgement fully on something until I know about it and even than, only make it as a personal judgement (unless its an issue of safety) and have a "do what you want (and in most cases don't pull me in)" policy.
This issue and people not believing me tend to come up when I'm explaining my lack of sexual attraction and AS symptoms. The people not believing me thing seems to be evenly AS/NT based on those few people I've met.
Thickheadedness or lack of understanding... anyone whose not open minded and/or eccentric

People who make annoying sounds (heavy breathers, whistlers, gum chewers, finger tappers, etc.) or annoying movements. I feel like squashing them.

NT's.....no doubt.

I really don't like extra perky NT's.

Judging from my expiriences with people who probably had AS and just never had a diagnosis, I'd have to say they were more annoying than most NT people. My best friend is an NT. She's just one of those rare understanding NTs.

and shallowness. Tends to be superficial personality types who are also the former.

passive/aggressive slowpokes get my goat, all too often.

Am I supposed to intuitively know the difference when I meet someone?

Hell yeah!

Some people find it weird that I can pick aspies or nt's. I find it weird that people cant!

Its not always obvious, but gets easier with practise. Many people are a mix, ADHD, different races.... I can also pick most asians, but still struggle with differentiating between Korean and Japanese

I could say loud Americans annoy me, for instance. or self effacing Kiwis or Brash Australians or class conscious English or Etiquette focused French or overly pragmatic Germans

I might have to agree with some earlier comments that everyone annoys me

Everyone aggravates me but these shine like a polished turd in my mind

Punk ass white guys who dress and talk like black gangstas who like to talk sh!t to you but when you step up to fight them they run across the street then call you a p#ssy.

Cops that stop me when I am walking who think because of my lack of eye contact that I am lying or up to something so they decide to interrogate me in the street in front of everyone who is walking by on the sidewalk. I then have to deal with people coming up to me asking what did you do? When I tell them I was just walking they look at me and say you must of done something why else would they stop you.

Teachers who accuse an aspie for being a trouble maker because when the aspie is in the teacher's room all the bullies torment the aspie causing a disruption in the teacher's room interuppting them while teaching but they do nothing to stop it.

People who stare giving you the stink eye then they whisper something to their friend when they're done they look back at you smirking. They always act shocked when I give them the finger and they try to feign innocense.

People who try to put their arm around me, poke my shoulder, slap my back, or tug on my ponytail without warning. I want to karate chop them in the throat for doing it just to see the look on their face. I garantee if I ever end up in prison it will be for murdering someone who I have told numerous times not to touch me and they end up touching me regarless. If that happens please make sure to write me in prison.