Keeno wrote:
Have you ever had people - people you don't know I mean - wanting to pose for photos with you or wanting their picture taken with you? Without having anything else to do with you that is, besides the photo taking.
A post I saw on another forum mentioned in part this subject and it intrigued me. I made a spate of nightclub visits last year and on one visit, I remember at least three groups of girls coming to me to pose for photos with me. I wondered what was going on. It happened another night at another club too.
The poster talked about how girls in clubs flock to, for example, the amputated m***et in a wheelchair to pose for photos with them. This is so they are not seen as shallow. Have you ever seen this happen? I'm not amputated, or a m***et, or in a wheelchair, but of course I am nevertheless in a disability situation myself. I guess the posing for photos is a sort of backhanded compliment, as maybe people think I look like a fish out of water in a nightclub and all it entails. Like I said, it's nightclub/party girls trying not to be seen as shallow, as they would be ashamed if they are seen that way.The poster also suggested it was a way of exploiting photo opportunities with people they think look disabled or whose face doesn't fit, to help them try to become the next big thing, having photos where they look philanthropic. Never thought of it like that.
Also, I well remember it happening on one occasion on a bus, where teenage girls sat in the seats surrounding me. Quicker than you know it, the girl beside me posed with me and a camera suddenly came out taking a picture. This was worrying, and I got off the bus immediately, so that they would be unable to take any more photos.
I have never seen anything remotely close to that happening unless we are talking about celebrities. Actually, the people around here would flock to the good looking people (usually of opposite gender) so they could have their picture taken, put it on facebook, then say the person is their best buddy. It's so they can look like they hang out with the beautiful people. They might even lie and say they are dating the person they took the picture with. Or that it's their gf or bf.