Has this happened to you? People posing for photos with you.

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25 May 2011, 7:12 pm

Sometimes when people buy a new camera they wan't to try it out and get as much practice as possible. This happened to me when I first got my high definition video camera. The quality of the video was so good everybody looked like super models.



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25 May 2011, 7:26 pm

That mostly happens to me when I'm at a convention. And even though I don't know a lot of the people there, we're all there because we have common interests so it doesn't feel awkward. It's actually a lot of fun.



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25 May 2011, 9:48 pm

I know a couple of guys with severe facial disfigurements - they get this a lot, however although in some cases this is about people wanting to look like they're tolerant of disabled or disfigured people, not everyone is like this. In most cases they are asked to pose in photo's because they're cool people, one also has a hot as hell body which always goes down well with groups of women.

I think unless you, dear OP, have some sort of major facial deformity or are known as some sort of side-show freak (not meaning to sound disrespectful, my point is that I doubt this is the case), I'd not be thinking these people are only doing this to use you to look caring or as some cruel joke. If drunk it may well be a simple case of 'IT'S A PERSON *hick* PHOTO PHOTO PHOTO....YEEEYYYYYYY!! !' :drunken:

I can't say anyone has ever tried this with me - given as I do look like a side-show freak in photo's I'm very thankful for this.


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25 May 2011, 10:32 pm

If they ask just tell them no. When they ask why tell them you don't want to be associated with someone like them then walk away.


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26 May 2011, 11:01 am

Todesking wrote:
If they ask just tell them no. When they ask why tell them you don't want to be associated with someone like them then walk away.


Oh, I just love that one. Be totally direct with exacting Aspie precision when they are being so indirect and furtive in not giving a clue why they want to be photographed with you. Then they end up being the one who can only stand there in a state of confusion.



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26 May 2011, 1:02 pm

This has never happened to me. Only from family.



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26 May 2011, 1:05 pm

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Have you ever had people - people you don't know I mean - wanting to pose for photos with you or wanting their picture taken with you? Without having anything else to do with you that is, besides the photo taking.

A post I saw on another forum mentioned in part this subject and it intrigued me. I made a spate of nightclub visits last year and on one visit, I remember at least three groups of girls coming to me to pose for photos with me. I wondered what was going on. It happened another night at another club too.

The poster talked about how girls in clubs flock to, for example, the amputated m***et in a wheelchair to pose for photos with them. This is so they are not seen as shallow. Have you ever seen this happen? I'm not amputated, or a m***et, or in a wheelchair, but of course I am nevertheless in a disability situation myself. I guess the posing for photos is a sort of backhanded compliment, as maybe people think I look like a fish out of water in a nightclub and all it entails. Like I said, it's nightclub/party girls trying not to be seen as shallow, as they would be ashamed if they are seen that way.The poster also suggested it was a way of exploiting photo opportunities with people they think look disabled or whose face doesn't fit, to help them try to become the next big thing, having photos where they look philanthropic. Never thought of it like that.

Also, I well remember it happening on one occasion on a bus, where teenage girls sat in the seats surrounding me. Quicker than you know it, the girl beside me posed with me and a camera suddenly came out taking a picture. This was worrying, and I got off the bus immediately, so that they would be unable to take any more photos.


I have never seen anything remotely close to that happening unless we are talking about celebrities. Actually, the people around here would flock to the good looking people (usually of opposite gender) so they could have their picture taken, put it on facebook, then say the person is their best buddy. It's so they can look like they hang out with the beautiful people. They might even lie and say they are dating the person they took the picture with. Or that it's their gf or bf.



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26 May 2011, 6:21 pm

People have posed with me if they are tourists. Lots of tourists like a "posing with the local folks" picture. Russian tourists and Japanese tourists seem especially fond of posing with me (probably of posing with anybody). Sometimes people will pose with a local even if they are just from a different part of the country or if they are from the suburbs and want to pose with city people.



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26 May 2011, 7:33 pm

The person taking the photo could be using it for anytype of purpose. Like some guy taking a photo of you with him before comitting a crime so if he gets caught but tells the police I was with this guy I just met or even worst this is the guy who did it or he's the ringleader. The worst one could be if a woman would take your picture with her then say here is a photo of they guy groped/raped me. You would be screwed. Its reaching but weirder stuff has happened.

I saw a cable show about a guy who was walking home from work and he passed a boy and girl walking home, he thought nothing of it. The girl and boy were out past their parent's cufews. They spent the night engaging in consensual sex with one another lossing track of time. The girl gets home and her parents freak out so to escape a spanking and grounding she tells her parents she was raped. When they do a rape test on she had shown signs of sexual activity. Before the police had tests on her she gave them the description of the man who walked passed her and her boyfriend. The police managed to pick the guy up while he was still walking home. The girl latter admitted she thought the guy would have been long gone before the police started looking. They collected the guy's clothing and the girl's clothing they found no DNA to conect the two. All they had was the girl's word and the police found the man strange because he walked five miles from his job and home. Long story short the man did 10 years in prison. He went from mild manner kitchen worker to a harden prison gang member. She saw him on tv getting an interview about prison gangs so she felt bad and admitted to her lie. The DA with held information about DNA found o the girl's rape test. Its scary what could happen if the wrong person knows your description.


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27 May 2011, 12:09 pm

this is exactly what they do to the autistic man i posted about before at the bar. they tease him and he humiliates himself an i feel so bad 4 him but he also craeps me out too, :oops:


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27 May 2011, 8:44 pm

So some of what OP suggests is that it's due to them wanting to "elevate" your status by making you popular (The classic "you look lonely/depressed - I'll cheer you up" action which makes you talking to them, which makes you talk to other people and vice versa raising your popularity, etc). Or it's sheer souvenir as other people said.

I'd cosplay at anime conventions or dress up real weeaboo and do stuff in-character and people did that with me as I was similar to this internet meme or anime character,,,,


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27 May 2011, 9:24 pm

TTRSage wrote:
Todesking wrote:
If they ask just tell them no. When they ask why tell them you don't want to be associated with someone like them then walk away.


Oh, I just love that one. Be totally direct with exacting Aspie precision when they are being so indirect and furtive in not giving a clue why they want to be photographed with you. Then they end up being the one who can only stand there in a state of confusion.


Well, they could be legitimately confused and not being dickish/condescending with asking for pics/poses

Janissy wrote:
People have posed with me if they are tourists. Lots of tourists like a "posing with the local folks" picture. Russian tourists and Japanese tourists seem especially fond of posing with me (probably of posing with anybody). Sometimes people will pose with a local even if they are just from a different part of the country or if they are from the suburbs and want to pose with city people.


:lol: Some suburbanite posing with a hood n***a saying "hey! I was in the ghetto too"! :lol:


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28 Oct 2013, 9:22 pm

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This was taken in 1978. It was the only year I didn't march in the University Marching Band. All the Gentlemen in this photo are alumni of Zeta Tau Chapter, Phi Mu Alpha Sinfonia. We would normally march to the opposing team's bleachers and serenade the visitors.



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28 Oct 2013, 9:36 pm

Meistersinger wrote:
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This was taken in 1978. It was the only year I didn't march in the University Marching Band. All the Gentlemen in this photo are alumni of Zeta Tau Chapter, Phi Mu Alpha Sinfonia. We would normally march to the opposing team's bleachers and serenade the visitors.


Which one are you?



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28 Oct 2013, 10:07 pm

JSBACHlover wrote:
Meistersinger wrote:
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This was taken in 1978. It was the only year I didn't march in the University Marching Band. All the Gentlemen in this photo are alumni of Zeta Tau Chapter, Phi Mu Alpha Sinfonia. We would normally march to the opposing team's bleachers and serenade the visitors.


Which one are you?


I'm the only one not in uniform. I didn't march that year.