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22 Aug 2006, 7:22 pm

When I was a kid, I used to hate going to a store with my parents. In clothing or shoe stores, they'd make me try on every item in sight, only to tell me that it's not right for me. In grocery stores, they would say no to every single request I made. Now, however, I still hate clothing and shoe stores, but kind of like grocery stores as long as I go there alone.



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23 Aug 2006, 4:14 am

Aspie1 wrote:
When I was a kid, I used to hate going to a store with my parents. In clothing or shoe stores, they'd make me try on every item in sight, only to tell me that it's not right for me. In grocery stores, they would say no to every single request I made. Now, however, I still hate clothing and shoe stores, but kind of like grocery stores as long as I go there alone.


I agree with you wholeheartedly. I've got to the point where I simply cannot enter a shoe shop without having a panic attack. When my Mother takes me shopping (argh) and she goes to a shoe shop, I have to wait outside and do my self-soothing routine of walking around in a 3-step by 3-step square while counting in powers of 2 up to the range of the billions. :?


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23 Aug 2006, 6:17 pm

Depends who the person or people are, i.e. how close I am to them. Many times I have been with a group of people I'm not really close to and/or who don't really accept me. At those times, yes I'm liable to drift off. And it doesn't have to be in a store. It could be anywhere. For example, travelling between airports this weekend with a group of people from another local church, who I didn't know well (or know at all) and who didn't really accept me. I ended up drifting off quite a lot.



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23 Aug 2006, 9:44 pm

I only wander off, if I see a Diecast Routemaster. Other than that, I don't wander off. That doesn't happen very much.



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23 Aug 2006, 10:33 pm

krex wrote:
RPM...If this was an English class...I would have to say...you are "Off Topic"...but since this is an AS forum, I would like to tell you that I like your writing style...it reminds me of the beat poets only easier to follow...Your writing is exactly what goes on in my head...(hope that makes sense to you)...
If it doesnt ,let me just clarify by saying it is a complement and not an insult...


Thanks, I never would have thought of that one before but thanks.



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24 Aug 2006, 3:15 pm

Usually not. I don’t wonder off. Mainly because I hate to go shopping for anything that dose not strike my particular interest at the time. If I do go shopping then I usually know exactly what I am getting and I go in and get it and get out. If I happen to be with other people and they are browsers and are into stuff I am not interested in then I do wonder off or I will tell them ill be in the electronics, you come and get me when your done.


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27 Aug 2006, 12:41 pm

Keeno wrote:
Depends who the person or people are, i.e. how close I am to them. Many times I have been with a group of people I'm not really close to and/or who don't really accept me. At those times, yes I'm liable to drift off. And it doesn't have to be in a store. It could be anywhere. For example, travelling between airports this weekend with a group of people from another local church, who I didn't know well (or know at all) and who didn't really accept me. I ended up drifting off quite a lot.


It's the way that people find people like us "boring". I even end up "drifting off" from my friends (of which there are few). :(


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27 Aug 2006, 12:43 pm

stuckinthedesert wrote:
Usually not. I don’t wonder off. Mainly because I hate to go shopping for anything that dose not strike my particular interest at the time. If I do go shopping then I usually know exactly what I am getting and I go in and get it and get out. If I happen to be with other people and they are browsers and are into stuff I am not interested in then I do wonder off or I will tell them ill be in the electronics, you come and get me when your done.


Electronics are good, and so is stationery!


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