Why are all of you so defeatist?
I'd love to see some evidence on this one chief, and don't try using a book of fairy tales written by bronze age nomads as evidence.
Chief?Why did you call me that?Well i have evidence at least from my self,personal(saw satan in my dream when i was an atheist laughing and saying i am an atheist,then he punched me,had ''astral projection'',sleep paralysis/demon attacks(demon sucking energy out of me like a woodpecker),also some other things that i may tell only a Priest).Also evidence of miracles,scientists can't explain.Also why did you think that people believed in God(The Real),gods and demons since the ancient times?From different places from the one part of the Earth to the other?Also people still believe in God or false Gods or to the religion of atheism and science.
More generalizations, hmm?
I thought better of you.
How was that general? I was address a specific group of people, namely those the original poster was speaking of.
JohnyJohn, I don't think that suicidal people should commit murder. Even if I thought that murder could be a good thing (I don't), I think it would hurt a lot of innocent people who might end up suicidal themselves...
Listen to the podcast or read the transcript: Deconstructing 'Myths About Suicide'
Some more mythbusting from CrisisLink: Suicide Myths
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Wishing pain on others will not help your personal anguish. There is nothing in hell as bad as having depression in this world. I think it's more constructive for you to focus on positive pursuits in the short time you have in this life.
Since someone may become suicidal because of unfairness,then he could at least kill the others that live the happy lives so he won't be all defeated.To gain some blood back because of the unfairness of life would commit suicide.I don't know if i explain it well or you understand what i mean but why just suicide when you will be the all loser?Why don't kill the others too and let them leave happy lives?
Well in my case I just don't want to.
The reason is because how you are treated as a child.
How you are treated as an adolescent.
You are isolated, rejected...rinse and repeat.
In adulthood, you remember this. It sticks with you. You stay that way.
The bullies win.
It doesn't have to be this way.
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Actually, no. Most people attempt suicide because they want attention (as in: they want help), but cannot express themselves in another way because of a serious trauma. The few people that DO suicide because of a specific traumatic event are in the minority, by far. Those are usually both successful and following close to the event in question.
I have not made the experience that there are many people here that are pessimist in general. Everyone has their ups and downs. People with Asperger's Syndrome have the disadvantage of being confronted with their disabilities and problems more prominently and often in every day's life. Again, this is a support forum. It is not that unlikely that most people come here and discuss their problems.
I don't know about that, when I attemped I did initially want to end it because I was sick of the mental pain and felt like that was the only solution, but of course I was a 15 year old kid and it took the overdose quite a while to start doing anything so by then I had admitted to a couple people that I took a bunch of pills and was having second thoughts. And since then when I have thought of further attempts its usually because I feel like there is no point in continuing life.
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I'd love to see some evidence on this one chief, and don't try using a book of fairy tales written by bronze age nomads as evidence.
Chief?Why did you call me that?Well i have evidence at least from my self,personal(saw satan in my dream when i was an atheist laughing and saying i am an atheist,then he punched me,had ''astral projection'',sleep paralysis/demon attacks(demon sucking energy out of me like a woodpecker),also some other things that i may tell only a Priest).Also evidence of miracles,scientists can't explain.Also why did you think that people believed in God(The Real),gods and demons since the ancient times?From different places from the one part of the Earth to the other?Also people still believe in God or false Gods or to the religion of atheism and science.
I call people chief often; don't let it get your undies in a twist.
You saw satan in a dream? That's evidence? Of what? That you had a bad dream? In my dream last night, a zombie apocalypse started, and it ended with them learning how to talk and starting a rudimentary form of government. Know what that means? Not a damn thing. Dreams are dreams; I asked for evidence.
Evidence of miracles scientists can't explain? Name three. Go on. Link me.
Why do I think that people believe in god? Mostly because people are ignorant sheep, and the NTs (who are in the majority) tend to have a herd mentality and repeat anything they hear without questioning it. Combine that with a history of people with mental illnesses claiming to have seen things (like demons and satan in their dreams), and you have the start of the cults that we have today.
Saying Atheism is a religion is like saying bald is a hair-style. Science is clearly not a religion since I can link you fact based materials showing that science is true instead of telling you science is true because I had a dream about gravity or relativity (which I actually have). Religions are comforting folk-lore passed down generationally through gullible people or coerced into populations through force.
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Actually, no. Most people attempt suicide because they want attention (as in: they want help), but cannot express themselves in another way because of a serious trauma. The few people that DO suicide because of a specific traumatic event are in the minority, by far. Those are usually both successful and following close to the event in question.
I have not made the experience that there are many people here that are pessimist in general. Everyone has their ups and downs. People with Asperger's Syndrome have the disadvantage of being confronted with their disabilities and problems more prominently and often in every day's life. Again, this is a support forum. It is not that unlikely that most people come here and discuss their problems.
I don't know about that, when I attemped I did initially want to end it because I was sick of the mental pain and felt like that was the only solution, but of course I was a 15 year old kid and it took the overdose quite a while to start doing anything so by then I had admitted to a couple people that I took a bunch of pills and was having second thoughts. And since then when I have thought of further attempts its usually because I feel like there is no point in continuing life.
My suicide attempts were never about asking for help. I hid my suicidal impulses and attempts from everyone around me for 15 years. It took a lot of effort for me to break out of that and actually ask someone for help to stop the suicidal ideation. I didn't want help, I didn't want anyone to know, I just wanted to make everything stop.
At least the younger ones anyway. I blame their parents for putting the dis in disability for them.
My parents knew I had AS but they saw my unique potential and focused on that, rather than my weaknesses.
I did it too. My parents had to tell me to shut up, they got so sick of hearing it. I'm convinced that it's a psychosis related to AS-I've met at least one here that seems to have similar symptoms as I had in my teens and up until I was put on Risperdal at 26. I know that if the Risperdal is interrupted I get all depressed/angry and jittery, like somebody who hasn't had their morning coffee. I personally am not ruling out brain damage from amphetamine based ADHD drugs-I was on Ritalin, and Ritalin/Adderall prescriptions are everywhere nowadays. It's like giving your kid meth as far as I'm concerned. There are behavioral interventions and non-stimulant drugs that work just as well now, but kids keep popping the legal speed.

If fasting qualifies as a diet, then atheism qualifies as a religion. It's borderline. Atheism is certainly a philosophical outlook on life, just like any religion is.
Incidentally, I am a BME major, and I talk to scientists and science students all the time. Religion is only a little less common among scientists than among the general population. I only know a few actual atheist scientists--the furthest most will go is agnostic of the "We can't tell whether God exists" flavor. The majority are religious, everything from Christianity to Buddhism to Islam, with more than a few having put together their own unique viewpoints that don't fit into any given box. So, I respectfully request you stop calling my professors and fellow students "stupid sheep". They could probably do advanced math in circles around the vast majority of us, and they are not the kind of people who believe things without thinking about them first. In fact, I think the striking variety in our religious beliefs may come from the fact that we do question first before believing anything--our faith is our own, not anyone else's.
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I don't think brain damage is likely on most prescription stimulants. They're typically safer than Tylenol.
The non-stimulant medications do not work as well.
Behavioral interventions don't work. If you do behavioral interventions with ADHD children in a particular place, then they only work in that one place. If you try to do them in a place where they spend a lot of time (like school) they last until the interventions stop. Further, the interventions simply do not work as well as medication with interventions.
There's a lot of negative mythology and propaganda about ADHD and stimulant medications. The vast majority of it is wrong.
Ritalin may very well have been wrong for you. It's entirely possible. That doesn't mean it's bad across the board, though. It's a life-saver for other people I know.
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