pre-90s born "mild" Aspies - would you be dx as a

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No, but only because of parental interference.

But having been born when I was (1988) I would have been diagnosed around age 12 were it not for that. If I'd been born 10 years later I would have been diagnosed at age < 4 were it not for that.

I was diagnosed PDD-NOS way back in 1985. My parents were more educated than most for that time (both got MS degrees in social work) and knew something was up with me. I might not have been diagnosed had I been born to different parents. Perhaps my parents would have just beat the s**t out of me for being an overly picky eater, having meltdowns, obsessions, sensory issues, etc...

I wasn't diagnosed with anything primarily because I was kept away from psychiatrists and psychologists. I do often wonder what would have happened if I had seen someone for a real evaluation.

I think I would have been diagnosed with autism rather than AS if I was a kid now. I didn't speak very much except to certain people. I lined toys up for hours, span wheels on cars, had poor imaginative play. Mum did take me to the doctor but the doctor just laughed at her when she said I had been suffering from panic attacks. Mum couldn't face going back to be humiliated again. It wasn't until my teen years that things took a real turn for the worse though and people started to notice.

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I have HFA, ADHD, OCD & Tourette syndrome. I love animals, especially my bunnies and hamster. I skate in a roller derby team (but I'll try not to bite )

I had a variety of physical problems as a child, and didn't play at all well with my peers. Fortunately, I changed schools often enough to stay ahead of recognition, and around seventeen I walked away from home and education. It was the sixties then, and one could do that.

Yes, diagnosis was a good chance, and with it my life might have been a lot different.

I remember a lot of the kids who were in my special education classes with me were in my kindergarden class I also remember most of the weird kids in the gifted classes was in my kindergarden class as well. I am thinking they put all the wierd kids in the same kindergarden class to monitor them better. I think when they tested us for kindergarden classes they spotted my strangeness right off the bat. So I am assuming if the Asperger's Syndrome was around in 1975 I would have been noticed pretty quickly.

"Developmentally disabled" I was sent to "special" classes in kindergarten because I didn't color in the lines and I never cut paper straight. Although 25 years later I can't remember if I couldn't or simply chose not to. But being labeled as defective pretty much stayed with me to this day.

I don't think I would have been diagnosed as anything. Not because I didn't have a lot of differences to my classmates, but because my parents are both quite 'odd', and they think I am pretty normal. I'm fairly certain my father has Asperger's. And my mother is diagnosed with Manic Depression.

It would only be if my school decided to push the issue that anything would happen. Schools in the UK in the 80s had little awareness of these sorts of issues. Even though I was bullied frequently, and had a large amount of time off school with what would now be called school phobia, my school never contacted my parents about this. There were terms when I attended only one third of the time, and nothing was done. Maybe if I went to school today they would have actually talked to my parents about my difficulties.

It wasn't until I went to university that health professionals began to give me various labels, even when I only went for physical health concerns such as glandular fever, I ended up with a psychiatric label.

I was just odd.

I entered grade school in 1963. Unless you were foaming at the mouth, there was very little psychiatric intervention at that time. In some ways I was lucky. Had I been noticed by the system, I would have probably been given first generation anti-psychotics. Those were pretty nasty drugs that caused permanent brain changes (damage?) and side effects.

It's a mixed bag. I wish I had known then what I know now. But back then nobody else knew either. But even then I'm not sure it would have helped. My parents were quite toxic.

I just got yelled at. Then I discovered sociology-psychology , girlfriend , weights and martial arts.

I still get yelled at but at least I know why and can explain to the people yelling why they are yelling and they usually stop yelling.

There was also some physical violence from teachcers , but to let you know how fast attitudes ( to anything) can change this was only 30 Years ago and hitting kids with standard issue implements like canes, shoes and belts seems like something out of the dark ages now. ( thye used to throw chalk board erasers at you as well)

The only criticism I have is schools are a lot more noisy now then they were 30 years ago and this is probably
not good for some AS. Fortunately they seem to have have done away with trolleys which scrape and squeek on tarmac- we used to get fee school milk that part- turned to warm cheese in summer, and it came on a squeky trolly. Milk was good, trolly not, not having milk in schools is nothing to do with negative stimulus noise policy but one that came in to save money. Cold freesh milk drunk through a straw ( you got a straw each time) is superb.



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While I was going through school, Hans Asperger was unknown to English-speaking people, so Asperger's Syndrome was not a valid diagnosis at that time. Asperger's notes were translated into English while I was in high school, and AS was officially declared a valid diagnosis in the year I graduated college. Needless to say, I was never diagnosed.

While I was in the second through fourth grades I was visiting the school therapist in her resource room almost daily. Everyone around me could tell I wasn't completely stable, but the school psychologists had no idea what was wrong with me or what to do about it. I often did abnormal things without realizing it, and would deny these events happened because I couldn't remember them.

I saw only one psychologist outside of the school system, and then only saw him for twenty visits, because that was all my health insurance would allow before my mother would have to pay full price for the sessions. Almost immediately he theorized I might have autism, but quickly discounted it because I didn't exhibit many of the signs of Kanner's Syndrome (classic autism). I was seeing this psychologist while I was in the third grade, I think, when my AS symptoms were at their peak, so I believe a correct diagnosis could have been made at that time. He seemed to know his stuff. - LJS