My dad might possibly be a Narcassist

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Ashuahhe
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13 Aug 2011, 10:50 pm

I would be very frustrated dealing with him. I'm in a similar situation, my boyfriend's mum thinks she is the important person in the house therefore what she says goes. Unfortunately she is stupid as in she will put candles near piles of paper and arguing is her favorite activity. Just living with her for almost a year has conviced me is narcissisic, she is selfish and will spend lots on money on herself and no one else. I try to avoid her but that only goes so far...



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14 Aug 2011, 12:14 pm

Verdandi wrote:
* Taking responsibility for his own mistakes instead of blaming others?


This might be one of his biggest issues. He "encourages" his children to make better decisions in life, but if he does something, he says: "You should have never let me try this. This is your fault for letting me do this."

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* When something goes wrong, no matter the reason, he has to blame someone so he has a target to take his frustrations out on?


This also applies to him directly. It's always someone's fault besides his. If something breaks, and I was standing right beside whatever broke, it's immediately my fault for "not being careful".


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