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Wonzling
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13 Sep 2011, 2:45 am

I can't feel empathy but I don't care if this makes you sad or happy.



:)


Seriously though, I mainly seem to have a strong inability to hate or resent other people. Even if someone treats me badly or does objectionable things I only can disagree with their actions on an intellectual level.
Luckily, this makes me a good negotiator with "difficult" people because I can keep negotiating despite their possibly abrasive personality.



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13 Sep 2011, 6:46 am

Where most people would feel hatred I instead no longer view that person as a person and give him/her no more respect, sympathy or empathy then I would give to a plastic bag. (thou you'll have to do something truly horrible to get that treatment)

I think embarrassed is a highly unnecessary feeling to have and I have never felt it, same with awkward and nervous.

I think I mostly just feel happy or stressed and anything else is varying intensities of those two.

Tho I mostly never think of myself in relation to other people so maybe i don't get a vote :lol:



ZaannV
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13 Sep 2011, 6:58 am

I struggle feeling emotions, of love, excitement, sadness, anger, etc especially in relationships with people. when i am able to though, those feelings are always really over eccentric and blown out of the waters, and end up resulting in melt downs. I cant express my feelings most of the time, i dont always know what im feeling either. So i react badly and cause negative trouble. It can be confusing. It can be good to hear if others experience the same, then you dont struggle so much and inwardly attack yourself


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jackbus01
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13 Sep 2011, 8:47 am

Wonzling wrote:
I can't feel empathy but I don't care if this makes you sad or happy.



:)




LOL!