21 Oct 2011, 2:54 pm
21 Oct 2011, 2:58 pm
League_Girl wrote:
What's the point in making rules if you don't enforce them? That just tells me it is okay to do it and they aren't meant to be followed. The rules don't really exist unless they are enforced. The rules are just empty rules and mean nothing.
As a kid I had a hard time with rules because kids didn't follow them so I would break them too thinking they were nothing. How could I take rules seriously if they weren't followed? If I don't see kids get punished for breaking them, that would tell me it's okay to do it.
And teachers wondered why I couldn't follow them? It's been written in my report cards that I don't follow them. How could I if they weren't enforced and if kids didn't follow them? I thought I did follow them back then even though I would break them sometimes intentionally because I had a hard time controlling myself.
That was enlightning As a kid I had a hard time with rules because kids didn't follow them so I would break them too thinking they were nothing. How could I take rules seriously if they weren't followed? If I don't see kids get punished for breaking them, that would tell me it's okay to do it.
And teachers wondered why I couldn't follow them? It's been written in my report cards that I don't follow them. How could I if they weren't enforced and if kids didn't follow them? I thought I did follow them back then even though I would break them sometimes intentionally because I had a hard time controlling myself.
thanks for your response
21 Oct 2011, 3:07 pm
22 Oct 2011, 1:23 am
Christopherwillson wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
What's the point in making rules if you don't enforce them? That just tells me it is okay to do it and they aren't meant to be followed. The rules don't really exist unless they are enforced. The rules are just empty rules and mean nothing.
As a kid I had a hard time with rules because kids didn't follow them so I would break them too thinking they were nothing. How could I take rules seriously if they weren't followed? If I don't see kids get punished for breaking them, that would tell me it's okay to do it.
And teachers wondered why I couldn't follow them? It's been written in my report cards that I don't follow them. How could I if they weren't enforced and if kids didn't follow them? I thought I did follow them back then even though I would break them sometimes intentionally because I had a hard time controlling myself.
That was enlightning As a kid I had a hard time with rules because kids didn't follow them so I would break them too thinking they were nothing. How could I take rules seriously if they weren't followed? If I don't see kids get punished for breaking them, that would tell me it's okay to do it.
And teachers wondered why I couldn't follow them? It's been written in my report cards that I don't follow them. How could I if they weren't enforced and if kids didn't follow them? I thought I did follow them back then even though I would break them sometimes intentionally because I had a hard time controlling myself.
thanks for your response^^^^
This
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You mentioned something about going to live in a cave, since I can remember I have wanted to live in a monastery as an scribe alone in a scriptorium, I am not actually Christian and as that goes I am a Buddhist but I have always loved the rules and structure in them and two of my hardcore interests have always been filology and calligraphy
BTW even though I need the structure I am actually a nihilist in all of its forms
22 Oct 2011, 5:52 am
22 Oct 2011, 9:26 am
HairlessAlbinoCat wrote:
Christopherwillson wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
What's the point in making rules if you don't enforce them? That just tells me it is okay to do it and they aren't meant to be followed. The rules don't really exist unless they are enforced. The rules are just empty rules and mean nothing.
As a kid I had a hard time with rules because kids didn't follow them so I would break them too thinking they were nothing. How could I take rules seriously if they weren't followed? If I don't see kids get punished for breaking them, that would tell me it's okay to do it.
And teachers wondered why I couldn't follow them? It's been written in my report cards that I don't follow them. How could I if they weren't enforced and if kids didn't follow them? I thought I did follow them back then even though I would break them sometimes intentionally because I had a hard time controlling myself.
That was enlightning As a kid I had a hard time with rules because kids didn't follow them so I would break them too thinking they were nothing. How could I take rules seriously if they weren't followed? If I don't see kids get punished for breaking them, that would tell me it's okay to do it.
And teachers wondered why I couldn't follow them? It's been written in my report cards that I don't follow them. How could I if they weren't enforced and if kids didn't follow them? I thought I did follow them back then even though I would break them sometimes intentionally because I had a hard time controlling myself.
thanks for your response^^^^
This
---
You mentioned something about going to live in a cave, since I can remember I have wanted to live in a monastery as an scribe alone in a scriptorium, I am not actually Christian and as that goes I am a Buddhist but I have always loved the rules and structure in them and two of my hardcore interests have always been filology and calligraphy
BTW even though I need the structure I am actually a nihilist in all of its forms
22 Oct 2011, 11:21 pm
Christopherwillson wrote:
Yea you might be right, it's just a way of preventing me to go live in a cave 
There's no way i can explain it to them cause they have to do with effects of my asperger's which they won't understand right? I am because of as sensitive to sound so they can't and won't wanna get it right? Maybe i better go live in a cave LOL
There's no way i can explain it to them cause they have to do with effects of my asperger's which they won't understand right? I am because of as sensitive to sound so they can't and won't wanna get it right? Maybe i better go live in a cave LOLCaves are very dirty. You wouldn't like it. Sometimes they're noisy at night, too, if screech owls and bats live there. Also, all caves belong to somebody. If it's a national park, and public land, the Park Service has the say, and they usually have rules against people setting up housekeeping.
I wasn't kidding about the screech owls and bats. My husband was a fanatic spelunker (amateur cave explorer) and one night we were, with permission, camping in the mouth of an Ozark cave which we were going to explore in the morning, after a good night's sleep. All night long, I had nightmares of vampires (the flitter of little bat wings) and axe murders (what a screech owl sounds like).
23 Oct 2011, 12:02 pm
Sibyl wrote:
Christopherwillson wrote:
Yea you might be right, it's just a way of preventing me to go live in a cave There's no way i can explain it to them cause they have to do with effects of my asperger's which they won't understand right? I am because of as sensitive to sound so they can't and won't wanna get it right? Maybe i better go live in a cave LOL
There's no way i can explain it to them cause they have to do with effects of my asperger's which they won't understand right? I am because of as sensitive to sound so they can't and won't wanna get it right? Maybe i better go live in a cave LOLCaves are very dirty. You wouldn't like it. Sometimes they're noisy at night, too, if screech owls and bats live there. Also, all caves belong to somebody. If it's a national park, and public land, the Park Service has the say, and they usually have rules against people setting up housekeeping.
I wasn't kidding about the screech owls and bats. My husband was a fanatic spelunker (amateur cave explorer) and one night we were, with permission, camping in the mouth of an Ozark cave which we were going to explore in the morning, after a good night's sleep. All night long, I had nightmares of vampires (the flitter of little bat wings) and axe murders (what a screech owl sounds like).
though i would like to experience it
just one night, that's where we used to live firstheand so..
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