I've ALWAYS thought in images. I have to translate what I hear in words, into images, but rather than that being an intelectual process, it's automatic and always has been. It's really an intuitive process for me, which is weird because translating what I "see," whether that be what I see with my eyes or in my mind, into words, is definitely NOT intuitive, but is rather an extremely intelectual and time consuming process.
My wife on the other hand, who is now convinced she is also Aspie, is entirely verbal, and never thinks in imagery. The difference in processing causes great problems in communicating with each other. I have to ask her very specific questions so that I can form accurate images in my head of what she is saying, that make sense to me, while she tends to need to do something I would call verbal dumping. How I need to receive her information isn't how she "needs" to deliver it, and vice-versa.
We've been married now for sixteen years, and for the vast majority of those years, those differences caused a lot of problems. We would always have to stop each other and insist on the other changing how the information we want to share is conveyed, which caused us both to lose track of what was already said, and what was left to be said. As you can imagine, that caused a lot of frustration and frequent arguments.
Now that we both know our communication needs aren't the same, and how each of them works, that understanding helps us keep from getting so frustrated with each other.
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I'm not likely to be around much longer. As before when I first signed up here years ago, I'm finding that after a long hiatus, and after only a few days back on here, I'm spending way too much time here again already. So I'm requesting my account be locked, banned or whatever. It's just time. Until then, well, I dunno...