Oh also I think I am not quite sure, but the doctor thought I had to strictly be hand flapping or not be able to read nonverbal at all to be on the spectrum. Although I am not sure if it is stimming or OCD I do tend to do things repetitively out of random usually at home as I tend to hide it or do less in public. Also with nonverbal I feel as though I know simple facial expressions like empirical data I might've gained to know a smile, anger, sadness, etc, but have trouble knowing why they did it or their intention as people tend to communicate very indirectly and not show obvious facial expressions or spell out clearly.