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Eloa
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13 Nov 2011, 6:34 pm

I have an imaginary family. And an imaginary world. It has only a couple of scenes, which I always repeat. It comforts me. Each time I find new details in this scenes. But I don't have any friends in there. It's a world, where I don't need to be different from who I am, but can be me, because people understand.
I have it from early childhood on.


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13 Nov 2011, 6:50 pm

I don't have imaginary friends of the sort but I do tend to live in my head a lot and have conversations with myself. I tend to do this when Im feeling lonely. I also create stories which never happened off the top of my head just like that, I should write a book one day :)



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13 Nov 2011, 7:07 pm

I am 17 and have imaginary friends(which are my only friends)
i don't think that there's anything bad about it so you shouldn't worry too much about it.


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13 Nov 2011, 7:28 pm

hanyo wrote:
Is it strange that I also have imaginary enemies?

Hanyo, I too also have imaginary enemies. xD
even at 21 im still imaginarily fighting an evil race that wants to take over the planet. Me and another aspie friend play the game. xD



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13 Nov 2011, 7:50 pm

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On a test, I said I didn't have imaginary friends as a child. I thought it meant what my mother described: someone you pretend to others is there, so that they have a chance to acknowledge the friend and play at interacting. For example, it's someone you set out a tea setting for in your room or that you tell your mother you need a chair and place mat for at the dinner table. I never did that. But I had a very active, well populated imagination, and I still do. When I played by myself (which I did a whole lot), I pretended lots of other people were there for me to interact with, friends and enemies alike. I still imagine conversations and arguments with people I make up or that really exist but that I don't actually know. It's just how my head works. I thought everyone was like that. Was I wrong? Is this another way in which I've misunderstood NTs? Have I misunderstood what constitutes an imaginary friend? Help me out here. I'm confused. If NTs don't do this, what do they do?


That's what I do with my imaginary friends too. I never brought them into reality. I think an NT might be more likely to pretend they're real, but we Aspies are more likely to play with ours in our own little worlds.



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14 Nov 2011, 12:48 am

I have had imaginary friends ever since I was 5 years old. My imaginary friends are always based on my special interests. Since my special interests are almost always TV shows and movies, I just take my favorite characters from those and picture them in my imaginary world, where they interact with me and with each other.

My main roster of imaginary friends currently includes the Mane 6 (intentional misspelling) from My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic, along with several Johnny Depp characters (the Mad Hatter, Willy Wonka, Sweeney Todd* and Edward Scissorhands) and a couple of his leading ladies (Alice and Mrs. Lovett*).

* Please note that although in their movie Sweeney Todd and Mrs. Lovett were murderers and cannibals, those particular aspects of their characters are eliminated in my imaginary versions of them. Mrs. Lovett is now a normal baker and more of a straightforward heroine, while Sweeney Todd is a normal barber, but still retains his "dark" personality and is an anti-hero.

I also have a lot of minor imaginary friends (or would it be "imaginary acquaintances"?), but they are either in the background most of the time (for example Ditzy Doo/Derpy Hooves from MLP:FiM) or come and go at irregular intervals (for example the Doctor from Doctor Who or Jack Sparrow from Pirates of the Caribbean).

In addition to having imaginary friends and acquaintances, I also have imaginary enemies. Most of them are villains from the movies/TV shows where I got my imaginary friends from, but I have also created my own villain based on my former best friend whose relationship with me ended on a bad note. Truthfully I never really got over my issues with her - not because I'm holding a grudge, but because I miss her terribly and wish things hadn't turned out the way that they did - so I suppose that by turning her into my imaginary enemy is my way of coping with all of the unresolved feelings I have towards her.



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14 Nov 2011, 4:52 pm

when I was younger there used to be a drip of paint (dried) on the bathroom wall and I used to talk to it, I liked it. Anyway every now and then in my life I see (what it is in my mind to be) the same drip of paint and I always acknowledge it by saying "Oh, hello". It's like bumping in to an old friend to me.



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14 Nov 2011, 5:22 pm

IdahoRose wrote:
I also have imaginary enemies. Most of them are villains from the movies/TV shows where I got my imaginary friends from, but I have also created my own villain based on my former best friend whose relationship with me ended on a bad note. Truthfully I never really got over my issues with her - not because I'm holding a grudge, but because I miss her terribly and wish things hadn't turned out the way that they did - so I suppose that by turning her into my imaginary enemy is my way of coping with all of the unresolved feelings I have towards her.


This saddens me. I hate relationships that just end badly, and looking back you just want resolution, but you just can't have it. I've had a poor last moment with a girl before she moved away a few months ago and the poor ending still hurts. She still on Facebook a lot (more than just about everyone else from the looks of it) and everytime I see her name I just want to talk to her and make everything all right, close some loose ends, but I can't, and it hurts.


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14 Nov 2011, 5:37 pm

hanyo wrote:
Is it strange that I also have imaginary enemies?


ROTFL!! ! That's great. And I tell those imaginary enemies just where they can stick it!

I had an imaginary friend as a child "Frank". As I got older I discovered video games, and the characters in the games became my friends. Some of the NPCs in lord of the rings online are among my best friends.



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14 Nov 2011, 6:57 pm

I have plenty, and they are of varying use to me.



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14 Nov 2011, 11:02 pm

I have an imaginary friend :D


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14 Nov 2011, 11:16 pm

More like imaginary pets.


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14 Nov 2011, 11:42 pm

MagicMeerkat wrote:
More like imaginary pets.


I also have imaginary pets. I have a few imaginary rats. Sid is one of them. :O)


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14 Nov 2011, 11:47 pm

As long as you acknowledge them to be imaginary and don't put them before real friends or family I don't think there's anything wrong with having them.


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15 Nov 2011, 12:12 pm

No I don't have any imaginary friends. I sometimes pretend the man I fancy is walking with me or sleeping in bed with me. But apparently that's normal for a young person because my mum said she was like that when she was young.


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15 Nov 2011, 4:07 pm

MagicMeerkat wrote:
More like imaginary pets.

My imaginary friends from My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic could be considered imaginary pets. Though for the most part, they are not directly my imaginary pets per se, but the pets of my human imaginary friends.