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MindWithoutWalls
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17 Nov 2011, 11:07 pm

This thread has had some of the coolest posts! And it's reminded me to make my Lincoln Log cabin tomorrow. Thanksgiving is coming! :D


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18 Nov 2011, 1:55 am

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When I write I can express myself quite clearly but when I talk to people in real life I sound like a little kid even my actions are childlike too. I know this because it's been pointed out to me.

I've waited for many years for the defining moment that makes me an adult but it just doesn't seem to happen and sometimes it does make me feel that I have to hide away.

I'm nearly 40 now and I'm wondering whether I will be like this forever.
Same here (except the "nearly 40" part). One time I went to buy a couple Four Lokos and had to talk to store management because the cashier thought I looked and sounded way too young and said I probably had a fake ID (even though my state ID was facing horizontal signaling 21 or older). It wasn't just alcohol I've had problems buying; it happens all the time when I buy M-rated games.


It's annoying now, but aging slower might be better for you in later years.



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18 Nov 2011, 1:58 am

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I'm also 38. I always felt as a child in a grown-up body. I only begun to feel like a man only two and a half years ago. I've been unlucky with relationships, I have no wife, no children, and in this respect I totally hate myself, being a twit. On the positive side, I can drive, have a car, an apartment, was able to hold down relatively good jobs so far, and I'm over-educated in a sense (I'm an economist).

My voice is unusual, and I can speak well only to receptive / intellectual people, and I'm also better at writing.

Depending on the situation and my mood, my parents regard me either childish or clever...


You are too hard on yourself. Not all adults have a wife and kids.



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18 Nov 2011, 2:00 am

I am going to be a child forever. xD



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18 Nov 2011, 2:36 am

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On the positive side, I can drive, have a car, an apartment, was able to hold down relatively good jobs so far, and I'm over-educated in a sense (I'm an economist).


Support yourself like an adult, but feel like a child.

or

Feel like and adult, but have mom and dad support you and not sure when you'll be on your own.

That's you versus me. I'd rather be you. Screw a wife and kids, so what.



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18 Nov 2011, 3:25 am

I have been an adult all my life.


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18 Nov 2011, 3:34 am

Well, I have model trains and a play with them once or twice in a year. Every time I pass by my preschool I feel I was there not far in the past. It's almost the same with elementary and nursery school. I have very strong affection to buildings, places, and objects of my past, especially form the time I was a kid/child. In a sense, I still depend on my parents. I see them almost every weekend, and I need their support. They give me food and even some money, too, besides their infinite, unconditional love.


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18 Nov 2011, 3:53 am

I love playing with my model planes like I'm a five year old.

I get in a hyper child-like mood and make noises and annoy people and don't take things seriously.
I think when I've had a stressful day it's just good to release my inner child.

Around other adults I feel considerably younger. Like I'm still a bored 8 year old listening to the grown ups speak and waiting impatiently to go home. The only difference is I am capable of having a conversation with them...about conspiracy theories.


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18 Nov 2011, 5:36 am

I've never really considered whether I'm an adult or not, I'm 28 so legally I'm an adult but how does that mean I should behave?

The gist I get from what other mum's my age do day to day is clean the house, cook, iron you know all that boring stuff, then they'll have some wine in the evening and watch soaps. They have dinner parties or go out at the weekend with their husbands or they have get together's with friends in which they drink, talk about men, soaps,gossip, make-up or whatever.

Wheras I do pretty much nothing all day (or I'll be web designing or writing), I clean when it gets a bit gross or we're expecting someone to come visiting. My husband does most of the chores like washing, cooking etc (he sucks at cleaning so I do that). I don't drink, I don't watch soaps, I play video games and watch movies and do random things like play board games or draw or write. To other mums that seems kind of childish but to me it doesn't, I just have different interests, some of which are more typical for younger people (like playing video games).

My husband and I also sometimes buy toys from our past, like he has a whole collection of TMNT and ghostbusters but we craftily get our daughter to like them too so nobody thinks we are weird :lol: She didn't like the furbies I got for her though, I also like japanese characters like hello kitty and my melody, luckily she does too. So we have lots of little kitty things like our house phone is a massive hello kitty that lights up. On top of our printer/scanner is a huge doll that look like some 1980's hoodlum, we have gomez and morticia teddies sitting on top of a pile of books. We have boxes and boxes filled with toys, statues, dolls, figures, teddies and all manner of things. We went through a phase of buying toy guns to shoot at each other but then we got bows and arrows, we all got hurt and it all got a bit much. Oh and the inflatables I bought for my daughter's party 53 inflatables in such shapes as lollipops, baseball bats, minnie mouse etc we had great fun chasing each other around the house whacking each other with them before party day.

Oh and has anyone else noticed how awesome today's toys are? when I was little I'd have killed for some of the toys of today!



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18 Nov 2011, 5:51 am

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Oh and has anyone else noticed how awesome today's toys are? when I was little I'd have killed for some of the toys of today!


My niece got a Zhu Zhu hamster and I was so excited to see it in action. It's like this robotic hamster that can move around on its own and when it bumps into things it makes noises. But the one she got had a fault in it so couldn't explore on its own.

They usually come with these big play sets with sensors that can activate all these kind of neat things. OK, maybe I'm getting a little bit obsessed. But even some adults buy them.


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18 Nov 2011, 5:57 am

I never fully grew up.
I still enjoy thundering around on a 200mph motorbike as I did when I was a teenager.



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18 Nov 2011, 1:58 pm

Can I just take this moment to thank everyone at WP for responding to my post. It's good to hear from people who are quite similar to me. I never imagined I would ever find this in my life but now I have I don't feel so lonely any more. :D



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18 Nov 2011, 3:35 pm

pensieve wrote:
I love playing with my model planes like I'm a five year old.

I get in a hyper child-like mood and make noises and annoy people and don't take things seriously.
I think when I've had a stressful day it's just good to release my inner child.

Around other adults I feel considerably younger. Like I'm still a bored 8 year old listening to the grown ups speak and waiting impatiently to go home. The only difference is I am capable of having a conversation with them...about conspiracy theories.
I'm with you on the child-like mood, and making noises and annoying people and not taking things seriously. Happens every afternoon. Change model planes to Pokemon cards, and conspiracy theories to current events, and we're good.



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18 Nov 2011, 3:46 pm

Phonic wrote:
I have been an adult all my life.


This. I never enjoyed being a child. - I was mature, but was not taken seriously because of my age. And you have no rights. Never understood the glorification of childhood in our culture.



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20 Nov 2011, 12:50 pm

My log cabin is up! My girlfriend agrees with me that this is the most architecturally interesting one I've built so far.

As I went along, I realized I didn't have enough logs to make a freestanding barn, so I made an attached garage. I put our stuffed horse and chicken in there. They barely fit, but it's amusing to see them. I figure, with the animals so close, the pilgrims can look right out their window to see what they're doing. I don't know where the pilgrims are, though, so I'm suspecting they ate them! Things usually go the other way around on Thanksgiving... I guess it's the "Food of the Gods" Thanksgiving this year!

I've heard today's Lincoln Logs are too small to fit with the older sets. Too bad. I wouldn't mind having some more. At least they're not being made of plastic, as they were for a while. Maybe I'll buy some more one day, just so I can have a few out-buildings, like that freestanding barn and a wood shed. Maybe even an actual outhouse!! ! :lol: We have no kids, and my niece and nephews aren't over here much, so no pretense. The toys are for us.

Being a child is not much fun. Playing like a child when you're an adult rocks! It doesn't matter if it's toys or just the way you joke around. You should hear some of the conversations my girlfriend and I have had while driving down the road. After 11 years together, she keeps up pretty well. :D


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20 Nov 2011, 1:10 pm

I am a kid, but that dumb birth certificate says I'm 43. I still like to play in the dirt, only now it's with motorcycles or with a 53,000-pound Caterpillar bulldozer; not radio-controlled dirt bikes or a Tonka bulldozer.

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