Neurotypicals, if you had the opportunity to become Autistic
I can sort of see what you are trying to say but I think the analogy is limping rather. The prejudice an immigrant is faced with is coming at them from the majority population. A lot of that prejudice is triggered by visual clues and takes little account of the person's abilities.
While people with ASD undoubtedly face prejudice I do not think that is at the heart of the situation. It is the things people with ASDs can't do or can't do easily but that are helpful or even necessary for day to day functioning that would put me as an NT off from doing a swap.
Like forming easy connections with people, to name one example.
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Anything more severe, no way. It's too hard.
That's so true, and I know it. But some people here seem to think that there is no ''high-functioning'' and ''low-functioning'', which really confuses me because I know for sure that I am high-functioning, and I've met/heard of lots of different people who are low-functioning with Autism and they are very different from me, and their traits are very obvious, whereas with me they aren't obvious at all.
But I look at it the same way you do.
When I argue against functioning labels, it's not because I deny that different people have different symptoms with different severity. I doubt anyone else is, either. I am kind of frustrated that this same territory has been covered again and again and the next time someone brings up functioning, it's time to go back to the beginning: "people believe all autism is the same." No, we don't.
The problem with functioning labels is that people assume they reflect an even spread of skills. Everyone who's high functioning is expected to be able to do a variety of things that not all of them can do. Everyone who's low functioning is expected to be unable to do a variety of things that not all of them are incapable of doing. Just because I would be described as high functioning does not mean I can hold a job, pretend to be NT, that my autistic behavior isn't noticeable, cope with sensory overload, talk all the time, communicate competently when I can talk, can drive, can remember and know how to do all the things I would need to do if I lived on my own, can manage a relationship, that I want a family, and so on.
Describing someone as low functioning doesn't mean they can't have a family, can't get a degree, can't use public transportation, can't drive, can't hold down a job, can't ever communicate in any way, can't live alone, and so on.
That's why people object to functioning labels. It has nothing to do with believing that all autism is identical or denying differences. If anything, it emphasizes differences even more than using the functioning labels in the first place does.
Well I am a type of person to look at things as opinion, not so much as fact. Most people call me ''high-functioning'', because I appear high-functioning. I can easily hide my traits, I can read body language and all of that (without having to teach myself), and I have.....uhh, can't think of a third explanation thing.....(goes to show I am slightly under average intelligence, but never mind).
I'm only afraid to move out and live on my own because of my anxieties, and my severe social anxiety. I'm constantly worrying that people are out to get me, that I give off this sort of vibe and people know it and exploit it (these people are mostly youths). All of these pessimistic thoughts hold me back from being able to do things, but if such a thing as ''vibes'' didn't exist, I would be less anxious and would be able to do more for myself like becoming more independant, if I practised. It just seems like anxieties stop me, and also fear of change stops me aswell. My fear of change isn't as intense as my fear of rejection, but it's still rather disabling. It seems like fears and anxieties stop me from being more independant.
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Any condition that moves you into a disadvantaged state I would say no. Does it significantly affect income? Yes. Or finding a mate? Yes.
One a whole does the condition have net benefits or are net liabilities found wth it would be determining factors.
I have a gift of empathy and I'm not sure if I can be described as empathic , but I get into anothers' perspective and feel the walk and to know what their experiences are................I believe 'I can know' without having that something directly -- I can imagine well, similar to being on the fictional holodeck of the Enterprise.
I can sort of see what you are trying to say but I think the analogy is limping rather. The prejudice an immigrant is faced with is coming at them from the majority population. A lot of that prejudice is triggered by visual clues and takes little account of the person's abilities.
While people with ASD undoubtedly face prejudice I do not think that is at the heart of the situation. It is the things people with ASDs can't do or can't do easily but that are helpful or even necessary for day to day functioning that would put me as an NT off from doing a swap.
Like forming easy connections with people, to name one example.
Aye, but is the immigrant not disabled from being an immigrant? And how is the autist really as inherently disabled as society makes him to be, how much of it is really from society? And does the autist have abilities NTs do not? The analogy is not perfect, but it works for all are purposes here.
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I can sort of see what you are trying to say but I think the analogy is limping rather. The prejudice an immigrant is faced with is coming at them from the majority population. A lot of that prejudice is triggered by visual clues and takes little account of the person's abilities.
While people with ASD undoubtedly face prejudice I do not think that is at the heart of the situation. It is the things people with ASDs can't do or can't do easily but that are helpful or even necessary for day to day functioning that would put me as an NT off from doing a swap.
Like forming easy connections with people, to name one example.
Aye, but is the immigrant not disabled from being an immigrant? And how is the autist really as inherently disabled as society makes him to be, how much of it is really from society? And does the autist have abilities NTs do not? The analogy is not perfect, but it works for all are purposes here.
I see your analogy, but it isn't complete. No, the immigrant is not **intrinsically** disabled from being an immigrant. If the immigrant comes to New Mexico they are not disabled in the slightest. They will find that most people in New Mexico speak their language and look like them. The culture will be very familiar. The food is familiar. They might have temporary challenges but a great deal of help overcoming their challenges. On the whole, there is not any particular stigma. Far from it, Anglos who don't speak Spanish have a harder time finding jobs. In a very short time an immigrant will function just as well as any person who moves to a different region of the country.
A white English-only speaking person who immigrates to Mexico might find a bit more difficulty, but eventually will gain acceptance and fit in fairly well. If that person was AS it might not ever happen.
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That I can absolutely believe. I can imagine it feeling like suddenly being behind a glass wall, possibly without being aware the glass wall is there or what a glass wall might be.
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That I can absolutely believe. I can imagine it feeling like suddenly being behind a glass wall, possibly without being aware the glass wall is there or what a glass wall might be.
Yeah. Or maybe at first, it will suddenly be like everything has gone vivid, loud, bright etc and they will be like...wtf have I taken a drug or something. Then it will scramble their brain, especially if it happened right in the middle of one of their social occasions. Then they might have to figure out how to put the glass up and shield themselves.
I say the visa versa is probably also true.
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I say the visa versa is probably also true.
I am not sure, I wonder if I would notice at first. It might be odd suddenly wanting to chat to people though.
I can sort of see what you are trying to say but I think the analogy is limping rather. The prejudice an immigrant is faced with is coming at them from the majority population. A lot of that prejudice is triggered by visual clues and takes little account of the person's abilities.
While people with ASD undoubtedly face prejudice I do not think that is at the heart of the situation. It is the things people with ASDs can't do or can't do easily but that are helpful or even necessary for day to day functioning that would put me as an NT off from doing a swap.
Like forming easy connections with people, to name one example.
Aye, but is the immigrant not disabled from being an immigrant? And how is the autist really as inherently disabled as society makes him to be, how much of it is really from society? And does the autist have abilities NTs do not? The analogy is not perfect, but it works for all are purposes here.
I see your analogy, but it isn't complete. No, the immigrant is not **intrinsically** disabled from being an immigrant. If the immigrant comes to New Mexico they are not disabled in the slightest. They will find that most people in New Mexico speak their language and look like them. The culture will be very familiar. The food is familiar. They might have temporary challenges but a great deal of help overcoming their challenges. On the whole, there is not any particular stigma. Far from it, Anglos who don't speak Spanish have a harder time finding jobs. In a very short time an immigrant will function just as well as any person who moves to a different region of the country.
A white English-only speaking person who immigrates to Mexico might find a bit more difficulty, but eventually will gain acceptance and fit in fairly well. If that person was AS it might not ever happen.
The analogy wasn't meant for New Mexico, where there is a significant cultural influence from Mexico.
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I can sort of see what you are trying to say but I think the analogy is limping rather. The prejudice an immigrant is faced with is coming at them from the majority population. A lot of that prejudice is triggered by visual clues and takes little account of the person's abilities.
While people with ASD undoubtedly face prejudice I do not think that is at the heart of the situation. It is the things people with ASDs can't do or can't do easily but that are helpful or even necessary for day to day functioning that would put me as an NT off from doing a swap.
Like forming easy connections with people, to name one example.
Aye, but is the immigrant not disabled from being an immigrant? And how is the autist really as inherently disabled as society makes him to be, how much of it is really from society? And does the autist have abilities NTs do not? The analogy is not perfect, but it works for all are purposes here.
I see your analogy, but it isn't complete. No, the immigrant is not **intrinsically** disabled from being an immigrant. If the immigrant comes to New Mexico they are not disabled in the slightest. They will find that most people in New Mexico speak their language and look like them. The culture will be very familiar. The food is familiar. They might have temporary challenges but a great deal of help overcoming their challenges. On the whole, there is not any particular stigma. Far from it, Anglos who don't speak Spanish have a harder time finding jobs. In a very short time an immigrant will function just as well as any person who moves to a different region of the country.
A white English-only speaking person who immigrates to Mexico might find a bit more difficulty, but eventually will gain acceptance and fit in fairly well. If that person was AS it might not ever happen.
The analogy wasn't meant for New Mexico, where there is a significant cultural influence from Mexico.
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I say the visa versa is probably also true.
I am not sure, I wonder if I would notice at first. It might be odd suddenly wanting to chat to people though.
There is a lot bigger of a difference than simply desiring social interaction, and I believe a LOT would be lost if autism were to suddenly be taken away. You would be just as likely to feel you lost you mind as an NT would.
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I know, and I should have been more specific in my point. The discomfort of being an immigrant to any country is fairly temporary. Yes, there may be prejudice but a person can learn to negotiate that. It's not at all the same as changing your entire neurology and being. Changing from NT to AS or vice versa would be so deep a change that I can't even imagine.
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I say the visa versa is probably also true.
I am not sure, I wonder if I would notice at first. It might be odd suddenly wanting to chat to people though.
There is a lot bigger of a difference than simply desiring social interaction, and I believe a LOT would be lost if autism were to suddenly be taken away. You would be just as likely to feel you lost you mind as an NT would.
Maybe but I am thinking about the sensory issues more, if they suddenly went away it might seem like I had lost part of my vision, or hearing etc. Then, over time, I may notice that I am thinking a lot differently, but I cannot think of anything else that I would suddenly notice losing.
I say the visa versa is probably also true.
I am not sure, I wonder if I would notice at first. It might be odd suddenly wanting to chat to people though.
There is a lot bigger of a difference than simply desiring social interaction, and I believe a LOT would be lost if autism were to suddenly be taken away. You would be just as likely to feel you lost you mind as an NT would.
Maybe but I am thinking about the sensory issues more, if they suddenly went away it might seem like I had lost part of my vision, or hearing etc. Then, over time, I may notice that I am thinking a lot differently, but I cannot think of anything else that I would suddenly notice losing.
Who knows, but I think that only scratches the surface. It's impossible to really find out.
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