Tough to say, and I want to say before I answer that I may not actually have AS (even though I also very well may)
I drink often because of what it does for me. It calms my brain down, it helps my speech flow more smoothly, it keeps me from being as anxious.
drinking for me has been a self-medication sort of thing for like 10 or 15 years now. I will try quitting for the second time soon on February 29th
I would say, whether AS or not, that drinking, while not making NTs any more comfortable with me, it makes me more comfortable with them and the typical world in general.
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Very high systematizing, low empathy, but moderate to high sympathy.
I do not experience cognitive dissonance reduction the way that other people do.
Professionally diagnosed in March 2018