Fear of wasting food
i wouldnt say i had a specific fear of throwing away unused food but i really do hate it and i always feel guilty.
But she's going to have to learn about throwing away food sooner or later. Maybe have a talk about it when you're not eating, explain to her that sometimes food does have to be thrown away.
The squeaking silverware isn't done on purpose, believe me, it irritates me as well, but not to the extent that it does her. She doesn't have a complete meltdown, but it definitely overwhelms her.
Or could find a "local charity" that runs a garden & have a compost.
Thank you for the composting idea, could be a very easy solution!
Do you feel like you feel specially bad for the wasting of food over other things that could be are equally or more prone to make you feel bad?
I do, I have alexithymia and that might make it confusing but I think that I feel specially bad or at least recognisably bad when someone looses money, has invested on something that didn't work out, spends money into something that wasn't what the thought or for what ever reason loose money other than by theft. I feel that I am specially susceptible to be at least auto-recognisably sad when someone else experiences such thing. ' don't know why.
I am paranoid of wasting food, and strongly dislike when other people do it. I always eat less than usual at buffets in fear of leftovers, and pack up leftover food whenever I can...it always get eaten. I also get really irritated by people not being green even when they have the convenience of doing so...an example would be not using recycle or compost bins for the appropriate items.
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I don't like wasting food, though not paranoid about it. Think of it that way: nothing is "wasted" in the food chain. The earth is teeming with life everywhere, all the food you didn't eat got eaten by other stuff, like bacteria or fungi, which break them down to basic elements and get recycled into the food chain again, eventually. The food you tossed away become feasts to other organisms. Isn't life amazing? In our city food scraps go into compost bin, which the city make into manure and sell them. Which means the cycle is even shorter.
I do admit there are some processed food that never ever seem to go bad. You probably shouldn't eat much of those anyway.
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If there's a microwavable meal in the fridge what is supposed to be eaten by tomorrow or today and nobody's going to get to eat it (for various reasons like another meal is being planned), I start worrying about it and I can't stop thinking about it until we find a solution of what to do with the microwavable meal without it being chucked out, like offering it to another family member or friend or whatever.
Or if there's a whole pack of yoghurts that have been forgotten to be eaten, and then somebody finds them and sees they're out of date and chucks them away, I spend the rest of the night feeling bad for them.
And when I finish eating a pack of crisps, I always have to double check in the corners of the packet to see if there are small crisps lurking in the corners, before I put it in the bin.
Could this be like an OCD thing?
This is me all over. I wouldn't say I had a "fear" as such, but I really do regret wasted food, and I feel genuine sorrow for it when it is wasted, as it hasn't fulfilled it's purpose. It's even worse when it's meat products, as that animal had it's life taken in order to become food, and the least we can do is show respect by not letting it die in vain. But it can be any food really, and any amount. People are always telling me it's okay to leave it and I shouldn't feel obliged to eat it (I often eat peoples' leftovers too, as long as I'm not grossed out by the person), but I feel much happier knowing that food hasn't been wasted. I hate food waste.
I also lick all the sauce and moisture off of my dinner plate after a meal, otherwise if I left it I would feel sorry for it.
I don't think with me it's an OCD trait, just that I was brought up from a very early age not to be wasteful, and I may have taken that rule too rigidly over the years. I also believe that I personify food because I'm not good with people and I'm compensating for it by showing greater empathy and attachment to non-living objects, including food. (I know the food was alive, but it's not now).
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I'm not that scared of wasting food, unless it's rice or pasta. But my father is. I don't think i'ts about the food- I think it's about money.
He tries to make me get Veggie Cheeses because it's cheaper, but it's not casein free.
I prefer to get 2 earth balances but he'll only get one.
If we were poor people, I'd understand.
But he has plenty of money! We could go on a Trip to Disneyworld on the RESORT! We could afford that!
He just is too obessed with money.
I'm Christan and would rather sever God then money. Of course- I haven't left my house yet. Maybe because I"m dependent on the money-obessed person. Hopefully I don't grow up obessed!
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Oh wow, I feel the same way. And it's hard when you live with other people, who fill the refrigerator with leftovers, and then never eat them.
But I've learned to stubbornly tell myself that it's not my responsibility to compensate for other people's bad life choices. Otherwise if someone made a giant batch of rice and then ignored it, I'd feel compelled to eat nothing but stale rice for a week – and rice makes me feel sick!
I am careful only to buy and cook as much food as I'm actually going to eat. If other people choose to be wasteful, that's their decision, and has nothing to do with me.
I don't have a fear of wasting food, but I'm a conservationist about it--I try to eat leftovers as much as I can, even if I'm not quite in the mood for that food later on. For example, last night I made mac & cheese (I'm a 5 year old trapped in the body of a 30 year old!) and had leftovers for lunch today and work and then some left over for tonight.