Beenthere wrote:
How many can't do this? I mean like tapping your feet to a song...or on another note...when you try to do something in unison with someone else...like stomping your feet or clapping your hands at the same time to a rhythm.
By the time my brain tells my feet or hands what to do it seems like I am the last one doing it. I used to dread school "pep" rallies in high school when they would lead sections of the class in cheers, I would end up getting laughed at every time. Just wondering if it's a common thing though...my Dad had the same problem.
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Most informative book (not a cure) I've read about the topic you mention is the How To (understand) book about ADHD Inattentive by C. Thomas Wild. Wild directly addresses this idea and reports several FDA approved medicines which improved his ability to sustain an even musical beat and to play the piano a little better using both hands (not a cure - but a real, temporary improvement lasting four hours plus).
Words
Gross and fine motor control
Crossing the midline of the body
Left hemisphere
Corpus callosum
Right hemisphere
Cerebellum
Dyspraxia
http://www.dyspraxiafoundation.org.uk/
http://www.hemihelp.org.uk/
If your dad had this motor control challenge, it's likely it could be hereditary.