Chatty Aspies?
Colinn wrote:
In this wide spectrum of ours it seems to be commonly associated by others outside it as having poor social skills. Granted, in real life I've not met many people with aspergers, but some of those I have met have been able to hold conversations quite well especially when discussing a topic of mutual interest. I personally think I fall into this category as I enjoy having conversations when I feel my mind is being stimulated and I'm quite open when doing so, but at the same time find small talk and faking interest in a topic to be irritating and tiresome. I'm curious how other members feel on this. Do you enjoy conversations under the right circumstances? Or dislike the process all together?
If someone wants to discuss something with me, I'll probably talk to them about it. I enjoy talking to people about all kinds of things. But if someone is lonely and just want to talk for the sake of talking, I'm probably not the best person for them to try and have conversation with. I just don't do small talk. It's a waste of time.
A lot of times when I have a conversation, it ends up becoming a series of explanations of various topics that I and whoever I'm conversing with trade back and forth. If somebody dotes on a topic with which I'm not familiar, I'll ask them for an explanation of it. My friends and I teach each other a lot this way. I always seem to find it easiest to talk with people who love knowledge and thought.
