Bad grammar doesn't bother me
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I think this is more prevalent in the English language, compared to say, French or other European languages where there is a cultural attachment to their own language and they feel a need to speak it properly, as well as deriving pleasure from correcting each other over the tiniest mistakes.
In contrast, the English language has become a tool around much of the World for "getting the message across", with little cultural attachment to the language.
The reason why some people in Continental Europe think of English being an easy language, is because English-speakers typically tolerate extremely bad use of the language. They can visit the US or UK , make lots of mistakes in English, and nobody will correct them because they don't care. An English-native expat living in France will probably have the opposite experience.
So basically, a smaller proportion of English speakers really care about grammar and punctuation.
I don't know if I'd agree with this unless I saw an actual study. I think that some of what you've observed could have to do with how large some English speaking countries are, and how relatively new they are. Canada and the US nearly encompass the whole continent of North America. That means that even in countries where English is the primary language, you have a lot of geographic and cultural division.
There are plenty of native English speakers who are stuck-up about the English language. But I, personally, am not because I think it's pretentious to assume that territories as large as the US and Canada should be expected to speak proper British English. We have tons of dialects in the US, and we have a lot of culture mixing here. I see no reason to think that this diversity makes the language any worse by creating new slang or using unusual sentence structure.
French, Spanish, and Italian are all Latin based languages, so I assume that they evolved from Latin, am I right? Does that make them all "badly" spoken Latin? Or no, because some rich academics got together and standardized the language and drew a bunch of rules up to try to solidify the language and freeze it into their own time period?
Language has always evolved. I think it's cool that we have a lot of rules about written language, but I'm not about to assume that the proper usage, as defined by the rules, is better than any other improper usage.
That being said, I do like standardized English. It's a hell of a lot easier to read than Early Modern English--or Middle English. But I don't assume that improper use is always bad. Some times it makes more sense than what the rules say. And I don't judge people who don't grasp proper English. I consider myself a minority, because I've heard many more voices defending the proper use of English than discussing the mutability of language.
And maybe you're right about the cultural connection to language. North America was only conquered by Europeans fairly recently, so perhaps, especially considering we have a large population of ex-slaves in the US, not all of us feel the same cultural pride in the language as some smaller, less recently colonized nations. I know that in US Literature, the acceptance of "dialect" in writing (like as in The Color Purple) was greatly influenced by the indignation of minority populations for being criticized and excluded from public dialogue and literature for speaking "wrong." Even now, Americans argue over Mexican immigrants not speaking English properly, so I don't think we're as tolerant of improper use of language as we may seem to you.
I don't have a problem with anyone who gets irritated by the improper use of grammar or spelling, so long as they don't try to claim that their way of writing is superior to others--or criticize those who do not grasp English spelling. I constantly have to re-type words because many English words don't adhere to any rules--and they require memorization, which isn't my strength.
Once, someone posted something about a minor mistake they made on twitter, correcting it, and I actually had to go back and look for it and couldn't find it, but it was there. No one in my family is a very good speller either.
People automatically think that because I have AS, I am a good speller, but no. Sometimes, spellcheck doesn't even have the word I am looking for, that's how bad I am.
What is the quality of your communication with people? Do you understand it all and well? Do you have at least a typical interest in socializing?
I'd start the analysis here with it.
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It depends. I'm more bothered by spelling Nazis who feel compelled to point out every little spelling error they see. Pretty much everybody makes a few spelling errors here and there. I see it as totally normal to make a few spelling mistakes.
On the other hand, if something has so many spelling and grammar errors, that the meaning becomes obscured or is hard to understand, then I just give up and just stop reading it. Why should I waste my time trying to decipher some poorly written crap, when the author didn't even take the time to spellcheck it?
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it doesn't bug me 'cept for dozens of "y'know?'s" in a single sentence. but i am no exemplar in the grammar department so i can't expect much more from anybody else, aside from eschewing most uses of the term "y'know." the marvelous thing about american english, is that it is a uniquely forgiving language, in that you can butcher a sentence and its meaning still is relatively clear, due to context clues. so as long as there are context clues in what somebody is saying [amidst a welter of spelling errors/bad syntax/malapropisms] i can dig what they are talking about, and am not offended by their lack of polish.
"it's a damn[ed] poor mind that can't think of more than one way to spell a word!" [andrew jackson]
If the grammar and spelling is too bad (especially the lack of punctuation), then it bothers me. I just skip over those posts. They are just too hard to read. But if there is very little misspelled words, I tend to not notice that detail because I don't care. I used to be detailed oriented about it and I stopped caring. To me it matters if I understand it or not or what they are trying to say. But I do notice a member here writing words like eggsactly and eggstremly for exactly and extremely and lot of people here will do I for I. I just ignore it. They do distract me but I ignore it. I also notice words not being capitalized when they should. I also don't let it bother me either. But a misspelled word I often miss.
Grammar Nazis do annoy me and I also cannot stand textspeak and it's very distracting. But this isn't an ASD thing because it bothers lot of NTs too. I also think grammar nazi is not an ASD thing because NTs do it too.
Sure if a post is very poorly written, I don't have a problem with people telling that person to break their post up into paragraphs or use spell check and punctuation because it's so hard to read. I have done it before but I don't do it every time. It just depends on my mood. Would this make me a Nazi?
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Well, I used to use the site that had spellcheck, but it didn't work on my computer, so I couldn't use it. Also, some sites don't have it at all, and sometimes, I will see that a word is spelled wrong when I spell check it but the word I want isn't in the suggestions, so I haven't find spellcheck all that successful.
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Bad spelling makes me squirm a little bit, but I am quite liberal when it comes to grammar and punctuation.
Many of the so-called grammar and punctuation rules are actually just very modern inventions made up by influential obsessive people who didn't understand English in the first place. And many of these rules are broken all the time by literate native English speakers, even the ones who claim to be grammar Nazis. For example, did you know that according to some of these people, you're not supposed to start a sentence with a conjunction? Did you notice that I already did it in this paragraph?
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