I'm black, female, and Aspie (as is my twin brother, minus the female part, obviously
). We're not rare; what's rare is that we are able to get an actual diagnosis. Not a lot of black people have the means to pay for the process of being diagnosed, or the post-diagnosis options. Alternatively, a lot of black people (sigh) are in denial that their children can have mental or neurological disorders, especially if they come from third-world countries into first-world countries (as was my parents case). There's a sad paranoia that comes with being marginalized already because of one's race/cultural background/social upbringing, so being further marginalized because of mental or neurodevelopmental disorders is "not allowed". It took my parents about 25 years to come to terms with the fact that my sister had bi-polar disorder and wasn't just 'extremely moody/manic' and strangely suicidal ("There's nothing wrong with you, you just need to eat better.") and she was finally formally diagnosed. They're even in denial about what they themselves display (the list is long, but extreme social anxiety, both also have high IQs (all four of us kids do), social isolation, depression, are among the few things).
I've never been formally diagnosed, but after taking very veryvery careful look at what was provided on the internet, as well as talking to a few people I finally came to a conclusion that my quirks and my twin's quirks and co-morbidities have a name. He's also very happy to put a finger on it. When I have the money and means, I will go through the steps, but it's difficult to diagnose Aspergers in adulthood :<. My two other siblings also display signs of other mental/neurodevelopmental disorders, but haven't pursued them as deeply as I have, but they are aware of my findings and feel that I have a solid argument. But recently, my sister wondered aloud if she might be autistic because of experiences she has had throughout her life (I mean, I've even told her that all four of us are likely on the spectrum and she didn't deny it). I think my family's finally opening up to the problems that we actually have.
I can't stop, so I'm going to stop before I get too ahead of myself.
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