You know, right up until I read this very thread, I decidedly disliked the word 'Aspie'... but thinking about it a little bit more, I understand the purpose that it serves for the people using it. I guess I was just resisting using it because it was a 'new' and 'different' word (change! scary!), and the last thing I want to be is someone who opposes what's new and different.
If it gets integrated more in common vernacular, I don't see why 'Aspie' wouldn't be an acceptable term to use. Except maybe when the DSM-V removes Asperger syndrome as an official diagnosis.
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