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Ann2011
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26 Nov 2012, 9:05 am

Loud conversations and laughter bother me a lot. I actually get quite angry that people can't be quiet. It's an invasion of my space. And frankly I don't want to know that much about them.


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26 Nov 2012, 12:29 pm

This might be weird but...

I can stand/filter out noise I can't interpret, like quite murmurs in a room, but once somebody starts talking just a bit too loud or a bit too close my brain can't not pay attention to it, and then slowly I start to notice all the other little particular sounds. The clock ticking is almost always one. This keeps happening until I feel I'll explode. I used to clench my teeth and stand it, but lately with so much stress and no alone time whatsoever, this is happening every single day.

I put in ear headphones usually but it gets to the point that I just want quite!



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26 Nov 2012, 12:48 pm

All noises seems excessively loud to me, especially high pitched ones. The ones that bother me the most are dishes clacking, dogs suddenly barking next to me, the TV on too loud, kids screaming, whistling. In the street I really notice car brakes screeching. At night I have to wear earplugs because I notice really small sounds and they keep me from sleeping. If I complain I get told to stop exaggerating. For some reason, however, I find the sound of pigeons cooing very soothing.



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26 Nov 2012, 2:48 pm

Sanctus wrote:
I'm living in a dorm right now. It's usually rather quiet, at least there's no loud music or party at night most of the time. However, I am often distressed by "normal" everyday noises right now. I startle everytime someone slams a door or coughs. The walls are pretty thin so you hear everything. Right now my neighbour - who is usually rather quiet and considerate - has a friend visiting and they seem to be pretty drunk, screaming and laughing like crazy, and it's really distressing to me right now. "Human" noise is usually kind of threatening and intimidating to me, even when it's something "harmless" like laughter or talking. I want to run away right now, outside, in a quiet forest and just sit in perfect silence for a while. Pretty weird considering that I don't usually overload in some much louder environments, like in a disco or when there's loud machines running.


It has seemed to me that it's not the intensity of the sound that is necessarily my problem with noise also. I can spend a day at the shooting range with 20 people shooting every type of handgun and rifle around me and be in a perfect state of relaxation. Put me in a college class with creaking chairs and I can't function at all. I had to drop a class because of the chairs. With the creaking chairs I get this feeling in my head that I can't describe other than it feels like itching and there's nothing I can do about it. There's nothing I can do about it other than leave or focus 100% of my attention on not exploding and starting to smash those sh***y little school desk. In the mean time gunfire is relaxing. Go figure.



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26 Nov 2012, 2:54 pm

Rascal77s wrote:
this feeling in my head that I can't describe other than it feels like itching and there's nothing I can do about it.


yeah, good description.