Everyone else finds it funny, I don't...Why?

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I think the reason that many people on the spectrum don't find sitcoms funny is that a lot of it has to do with social situations and the ways they can go awry. Without having similar experiences with people or not realizing when situations are awkward, I can see why these jokes in these shows are lost for people on the spectrum.

But to each their own...you don't have to like these shows or have this sense of humor to have good friends, and it's possible that the OP and others in similar situations can bond with their friends in other ways. You don't have to have every single interest they have or laugh at every joke they make.

I never used to find sitcoms funny until I had plenty of experiences being around NTs who are into that sort of humor...in fact, I didn't understand them at all. Now I watch these shows quite a lot...and although I may not understand every single joke, there are some that I find pretty funny: especially some of the edgier shows like It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia, which my boyfriend and I are currently watching. And for the record, I like Seinfeld.

Actually I love some sitcoms. How I Met Your Mother, Big Bang Theory... I grew up on Roseanne and Married with Children. I just never found Seinfeld or Friends or most other really popular sitcoms to be even remotely funny. I often wondered if they used some form of mind control to get people addicted which I was immune to by virtue of being a genius (this was pre-diagnosis).

For those of you inclined to take things literally, I am at least half-joking about that last part. ; D

Anyway, yeah, I think sense of humor is just different for everyone. Generally, I think NTs tend to find reasons to find things funny when they are expected to so as to fit in as much as possible (probably unconsciously most of the time) while those of us on the spectrum would generally never even think of pretending to like something we don't just to fit in better with society.

I don't get Seinfeld, Southpark and Friends, but I absolutely love the Simpsons.

I don't find seinfeld or any TV show of that type funny but I do find southpark and the simpsons very funny. In fact Southpark is one of my favorite forms of entertainment. I've thought of it as strange before because seinfeld type shows are basically the same concept as southpark. They use outrageous situations for comedy. I guess the real difference for me is that with one it's outrageous situations revolving around a character or interpersonal relationship while the other uses outrageous situations to highlight an idea or object.

I have difficulty with humor that involves people being embarrassed or humiliated. I'm like "what a horrible thing to have happen" and my kids will go "Mom, you're not supposed to take it seriously" or "You're not supposed to feel sorry for that character". That seems to be what a lot of sitcom humor is.

I like absurdity and satire and wordplay. Monty Python, BlackAdder, P.G. Wodehouse, Terry Pratchett, Get Fuzzy, and xkcd are some things I find humorous.

I tend to like sitcoms and stand up comedy, and comedy in general, I suppose. I have a multitude of random quotes from tv shows, movies, comedians, etc. that I insert into random conversations, and I think I'm a riot. The references tend to elude most people, and then I get to explain exactly who or what character said it, on what show it was from, and what was going on when it was said. I greatly enjoy the act of explaining this to people, and my husband can actually tell now when I'm quoting something whether he gets the reference or not. He, also, makes a point of asking me what the quote was from if he didn't get it so I get the joy of explaining it to him; he's awesome. I have done this since I was little.

I actually find Seinfeld hilarious (though it took YEARS of watching the show with my family before I really 'got it') but haven't laughed at an episode of the Simpsons since I was a little kid. Friends is a terrible show, agreed! I also really enjoyed The Office...haven't given any of the current popular comedies more than a few minutes of my time, so I can't comment on those. What the OP described happens most often to me in theaters (on those rare occasions) and especially noticeably, while watching The Avengers. There were so many unfunny quips that the entire theater laughed at excessively. I'd like to think that my sense of humor requires some sort of intelligent basis but I loved and still love the slapstick in Home Alone .

Love sienfeld.
Hate friends.

The office- I dunno. Havent had the patience to sit through an episode long enough to really give it a try-just doesnt grab me.

Been in comedy clubs ( gotten on stage and performed myself a few times) when the crowd is 50-50 Black and White when a black comic will say something - and every black in the place explodes into uproarius laughter - and every white (including me) just looks around and looks befuddled.

Some jokes only women 'get' and not men.
Probably vice versa.

Different subsets of people in society laugh at different things.

Its not necessarily an aspie vs nt thing. But-then again -sometimes it is.

I find southpark funny because I live there. I find odd things funny like the movie Fargo some parts are just funny to me that most people do not.

Seinfeld?
Funny?
Since when?

I still think the worst sitcom is:
Two And A Half Man

The only show I like is That 70s Show (the presentation of those 70s clishés and the presentation of drug trips from the point of view of those who took it in that show somehow fit my humour) and the only one that I think is acceptable (makes me smirk and sometimes giggle) is Frasier.

I have the same problem with that kind of "average" humour. I think the average person thinks such a show is funny because of the laughter played in the background (I hate that actually, it's annoying). They will laugh because they hear others laugh and because they expect humour in that show. Just a guess though.

I often force myself to laugh when I'm among people watching some movie/show, but I am just slightly amused. Makes me seem less weird - but of course, this is way more tiring than just not laughing.

If I really think something is funny and actually start laughing, I have a hard time to stop that and to suppress that. NTs seem to be able to stop laughing after a short time but I keep laughing for at least twice as long. I often remind myself unintentionally of what made me laugh and this just makes it worse, a teacher once even asked me if I did that on intention and another time I got asked if I felt the need to get out of the room, although in both cases I was trying to suppress it and was giggling all the time...

It isn't a thing.

Sense of humour varies from one to the next. Only difference between us and them is that we don't feel such a strong need to fake it... though I do have to tone down my amusement when I find something funny. I only find things funny if just about everyone else finds it tragic / offensive.