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ianorlin
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16 Jan 2013, 2:25 pm

And there are so many things in the world to take pictures of other than people like mountains, hills, the sky, models you build, lakes, rivers, cars and many more things why odes it always have to be of people.



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16 Jan 2013, 3:09 pm

Static photo cameras are irritating but generally okay. Video cameras though, I will not allow. I have seen myself on video only once and I never want to again.



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16 Jan 2013, 3:26 pm

I really hate any kind of pictures taken with a photoflash for sensory issues. Over the years it seems I almost perfected anticipating the flash in a way, because most of those pictures show me with eyes closed. :lol: Drove the poor bloke who had to take my last photo for my new passport a bit mad actually.

Since I professionally still work with real film, you know that stuff Kodak and Fuji used to produce, I really like the aesthetics of film especially highspeed b/w film. However I always feel sad when this precious material is wasted on me and my aspie-stare. :roll:



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16 Jan 2013, 4:06 pm

Yo. Checkit. I'm shameless...
You can see my stylus, you can see up my nose, you can see my lack of glasses at the moment (which is honestly the strangest part of all this).
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Taken mere moments ago... just for you lot...

I've been posting photos of myself on the Internet for years.
I've posted quite a few videos of myself on YouTube, though I've not added any recently. Novelty wore off a while back.
I've had others take photos of me... some good, some bad, some terrible... and I've rolled with it. I can't help the way my chassis looks... so when folks take sh***y pictures of me, I just roll with it...
I've EVEN had photos of me shopped into the most horrible things, including image macros for the express purpose of mocking me. I've had people linking to my videos to make entire forum threads where everybody takes turns to take the piss out of me. And you know what I do? I just have a laugh myself, admit that I look like a right numpty, and roll with it. I mean no, I don't like being mocked... but the only real loss is to lose to one's emotions, and if I can't take mockery in stride then I've got no business being on the Internet.



What I can't abide though is folks who get all pissy-pants about photos of themselves and start trying to delete them. In fact I HAVE lost control and gone into rage mode because someone tried to delete photos I'd taken of them from my phone before. I will not abide my stuff being touched without express permission. Is why I usually try to be subtle in taking photos. Shame both my digital camera AND my phone are utterly incapable of subtlety as far as the flash is concerned... Combine that with my preference for dark places, and everyone pretty much knows when I'm trying to take a photo of them as much as several seconds in advance. ¬_¬ ... I wish I had Kim's camera. That thing is hella stealthy.



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16 Jan 2013, 7:32 pm

When I was little, I used to cry when someone tried to take a picture or video of me. I don't really complain anymore.



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19 Jan 2013, 8:19 pm

OP, I get you 100%. I hate cameras. I hate having my pic taken. I do not do vid chat, period. If a camera comes up, I'm outta there.
I'm so glad I'm not young now. I can't imagine what it's like to be part of generation everything online.

I've left class because a crew came in to film. On another occasion my class was filmed and I wasn't allowed to leave. I made sure to turn so my back was at them when they were in one side of the class and when they got to the other, I buried my face on desk with my arms over it. Some of us hate cameras and being filmed/ photographed. W should never ever be forced into that position in the first place. I regret not leaving the room despite the teacher's command. I should have. You cannot force pupils to be filmed.
Oh, just for the record, in both instances the crews were film students making movies for their class.

When I was little, up to 9 or 10, I'd monkey in front of the camera when my parents held it, but I refused when anyone else tried.
Even in my first daycare I was extremely uncomfortable being photographed by the guy who came by to take pics of all the children there. One group pic (the 'aunt' had to force me to sit down) and one individual snap of each child. When I was called to the bench for the individual one, I refused to butt, so they took the snap in the sandbox where I sat. I focused entirely on my shovel. It felt so wrong!
I was every bit as uncomfortable in every class pic I was forced to take. I hated it!
I can't recall it myself, but according to my mother I was a nightmare to have photographed when I was 2 and she took me to a pro. I was crying all the time from the second I was put in front of the camera, and it had taken forever before they managed to get a shot. My mother has told me she was sweaty when we left lol

If I were forced now I'd pull my shirt/jacket whatever over my face, or flat out refuse, regardless of consequences. I hate it that much. Not gonna happen. No one has any business snapping me.

Those who don't feel like that, cannot understand the amount of this we have. Just like NTs can't understand sensory issues, you can't understand how this is experienced for us.


Thankfully, due to that case in Sweden recently, there seems to be new laws on the way regarding what can be put online, so if you're unlucky enough to get caught on tape now that everyone has cell phones with pic/ vid functions, it will be regulated what can be done. Those laws cannot come quickly enough, and cannot be forceful enough!


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19 Jan 2013, 8:37 pm

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As a photographer I take any request by a person to delete a photo of them as an INSULT.

They usually know nothing about photography. I do. If they don't want their photo online I won't put it online, but I will not delete it.

Such a reaction is as ridiculous as your own, but hey we're kind of stuck in our ways.

I actually wrote a sci-fi story about a camera that stole people away. It was a teleporter.

You took her phone? Her actual property? Now that was a bit much. Your actual reaction to having your picture taken is false so you maybe want to not steal people's property over something as small as this. You could get charged.

I know I'm being kind of harsh about this but I'm in the state of mind when it's hard to care so this futile apology is the best you're going to get. A photograph of you is a static copy. There's no consciousness being passed from you onto it. It's million of pixels being created from light and a bunch of glass and mirrors.

When I take a photo it's my property. I can even copyright it.

I don't like it when people take photos of me because they're not doing it right. I'd feel comfortable on video if I take it myself, or am responsible for the editing process. Try taking a photo of yourself to see if you feel the same way, then print it out and then tear it up. Say if a photograph of you is really taking a part of you away for people to do whatever they want over it - isn't deleting it nothing short of homicide? That's the way I see it. You're censoring my art. You're stabbing a knife through the canvas. Or you'r just really being nosy and controlling. But 'you're' I'm talking about all people in general who tell me to delete things. I kind of hate being told what to do.


I am hobbist photographer and I understand the need to respect the wishes of other peple. I ask if I can take their photo(i seldom take pictures of people anyways) and if they agree and I do if they do not want it seen, it will not. I never deny the inddividual the right to ask me to delete it, because a photographs is very intimate. We do not always want to have that degree of intimacy.



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20 Jan 2013, 12:07 am

pensieve wrote:
As a photographer I take any request by a person to delete a photo of them as an INSULT.

They usually know nothing about photography. I do. If they don't want their photo online I won't put it online, but I will not delete it.

Such a reaction is as ridiculous as your own, but hey we're kind of stuck in our ways.

I actually wrote a sci-fi story about a camera that stole people away. It was a teleporter.

You took her phone? Her actual property? Now that was a bit much. Your actual reaction to having your picture taken is false so you maybe want to not steal people's property over something as small as this. You could get charged.

I know I'm being kind of harsh about this but I'm in the state of mind when it's hard to care so this futile apology is the best you're going to get. A photograph of you is a static copy. There's no consciousness being passed from you onto it. It's million of pixels being created from light and a bunch of glass and mirrors.

When I take a photo it's my property. I can even copyright it.

I don't like it when people take photos of me because they're not doing it right. I'd feel comfortable on video if I take it myself, or am responsible for the editing process. Try taking a photo of yourself to see if you feel the same way, then print it out and then tear it up. Say if a photograph of you is really taking a part of you away for people to do whatever they want over it - isn't deleting it nothing short of homicide? That's the way I see it. You're censoring my art. You're stabbing a knife through the canvas. Or you'r just really being nosy and controlling. But 'you're' I'm talking about all people in general who tell me to delete things. I kind of hate being told what to do.


You may hate being told what to do with 'your property', but do keep in mind that, firstly, it is rude to just take a photograph of someone without their permission, and secondly, they have good reason to be concerned about how their image - not yours - will be used. Not everyone wants to be famous, or on Fakebook, or end up in a magazine. Some of us, many of us, just want to be left alone in peace.

If I caught someone taking my photograph, or filming me, in a public place, and that person was a complete stranger, I would not be so polite as to insist that they delete what they had taken; I would smash their camera over their head! (Then I would give them a good kick up the backside, just to be sure they got the message).



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20 Jan 2013, 12:21 am

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What I can't abide though is folks who get all pissy-pants about photos of themselves and start trying to delete them. In fact I HAVE lost control and gone into rage mode because someone tried to delete photos I'd taken of them from my phone before. I will not abide my stuff being touched without express permission. Is why I usually try to be subtle in taking photos. Shame both my digital camera AND my phone are utterly incapable of subtlety as far as the flash is concerned... Combine that with my preference for dark places, and everyone pretty much knows when I'm trying to take a photo of them as much as several seconds in advance. ¬_¬ ... I wish I had Kim's camera. That thing is hella stealthy.


Do you have any idea how creepy and disturbing this sounds? This is voyeurism, it is a crime! :x :evil:
'I will not abide my stuff being touched without express permission. Is why I usually try to be subtle in taking photos.' - the sheer arrogance of this. Your attitude is disgusting. How dare you! Stop this unethical behaviour NOW, before you get arrested or beaten up.



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20 Jan 2013, 12:37 am

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Sadly that right is very transparent these days. Now the media has people thinking that if you are not open with who you are, online for example, then you are not who you say you are and are not to be trusted. I remember recently reading an article advising women not to date men who don't have a Facebook profile for these reasons. This kind of thing scares me. Rights evaporate away over time.


'...not to be trusted'? Don't people realise that what is placed on Facebook can be completely fake and/or misleading? It's the kind of 'service' that almost actively encourages deception.



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20 Jan 2013, 10:11 am

I don't have a problem if people take a photo of me at all.



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20 Jan 2013, 11:24 am

Posed photos are particularly annoying to me.
If someone is going to photo me I'd much rather they be candid but good shots.
I mess around some with amateur photography but rarely shoot pictures of people unless it can't be helped.
What's weird is that my dog doesn't like having a camera pointed at her.
A little pocket camera or iPhone doesn't bother her but something about that big glass eye of my DSLR or bridge camera staring at her makes her turn away or leave.


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20 Jan 2013, 11:29 am

Being photographed or being recorded in any way upsets me. I never look right in photos and audio recordings upset me enough that I wouldn't even record myself just to listen to it by myself and delete it. I can't even recognize my own voice in a recording.



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20 Jan 2013, 1:13 pm

I dislike having my picture taken, I hate seeing myself, and with videos I hate my voice. It sounds nothing like what is in my head or how I hear myself. I begrudgingly let people take my picture, but if they take it without my permission and refuse to delete it, and be so cocky as to think it is their property.... I equate it to spying or being a peeping tom. It's plain creepy, and makes me very upset. Just because we exist does not give anyone the right to sneakily take our pictures.


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