Need some help from aspies and non aspies alike?

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You could watch some porn that is aimed at a female audition - ideas for foreplay etc

Shellfish has good advice, can be quite hard to find though. Otherwise look for inspiration in erotica rather than hard porn. Pay attention to ones where the woman looks like she is actually enjoying herself rather than acting.

If you feel a bit lost at some point just ask your friend what she would like you to do.

I don't think you are going to learn anything from porn. Just try to relax and lower your expectations. You are inexperienced and that is going to show no matter what you do; there is no way around it. She knows this and is comfortable with it, so you should be too.

Thanks guys... I dont know why I am so nervous about this. She said she will do whatever to make me feel comfortable, she likes me for me. I guess it's just because its unknown to me and something I have wanted for so long, its finally happening in such a dramatic fashion. its only a couple of more nights but i am growing impatient..

I wish the best for you but I'm concerned. Any time someone will go to meet a stranger from the internet, especially just for sex, I'm concerned. She could rob you when you get there. I wish you would find someone local, if you want to know the truth.

Frankly (if I were you) I would not assume you will go somewhere to be alone that first day or night. Instead, If it were me I would bring someone you trust with you, and hang out with this stranger for a few days in public places, before you even think about having sex with them.

Do you know if she is married? How much do you really know about her? Have you verified it? Have you seen that TV show, Catfish?

Something about it doesn't seem right to me...and that plus the ASD tendency to be easily fooled...makes me worry for you.

What to say at dinner would be the least of my worries. She sounds aggressive and will take the lead, for sure.