Taking things literally, figures of speech, etc.

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AtticusKane
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16 Jul 2013, 2:35 am

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I'm terrible with poetry! If you want to say something, just say it. Does it always have to be in some code that only other poets can understand? A friend of mine in college had the same problem with poetry. She was in an advanced English class one semester, and they were studying poetry. In one poem, it said something about a woman in a wheat field with a ribbon in her hair. According to the professor, the wheat field represented fertility and the ribbon in the woman's hair meant that she was pregnant, and so on. Everybody else in the class was following the poem along ok, while my friend said she was flipping back and forth in the book thinking "What page are we on?!?!"


I decided a while ago, probably around freshman year of high school, that those literature books and teachers often don't know what they're talking about. To try and impose all these deep symbolic meanings into a work is missing the point of the art. What tipped me off was the multiple choice tests asking about the authors intention by using a certain word. I thought, man, there is no way that these people can know what this ancient poet "intended" by using this specific word. Art and philosophy are fluid, I think. Ancient art or old books or whatever can hold new meaning in light of modern times, or from different perspectives. To teach rigid meanings of art just makes a bunch of NT kids zone out and nod along and never care, and the rest of us groan in exasperation because we can tell how utterly stupid the whole damn thing is.



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16 Jul 2013, 3:04 am

Figures of speech I don't have as much trouble with; it's rhetorical questions that cause me problems.

Webalina wrote:
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i don't understand poetry its not straight forward or logical


I'm terrible with poetry! If you want to say something, just say it. Does it always have to be in some code that only other poets can understand? A friend of mine in college had the same problem with poetry. She was in an advanced English class one semester, and they were studying poetry. In one poem, it said something about a woman in a wheat field with a ribbon in her hair. According to the professor, the wheat field represented fertility and the ribbon in the woman's hair meant that she was pregnant, and so on. Everybody else in the class was following the poem along ok, while my friend said she was flipping back and forth in the book thinking "What page are we on?!?!"

I can totally relate to this story. :D I was an English major in college, which in hindsight was a terrible idea because I wasn't all that interested in literature, much less analyzing it. I always struggled with trying to find the figurative meaning in a piece of writing. I remember once instance where I was struggling to make sense of a Shakespearean sonnet, and someone I knew--who was not an English major--was able to figure out the meaning behind it in a couple of minutes. :? I think my sister put it right when she said that I got a BA in BS. :P



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16 Jul 2013, 3:42 am

Sometimes I get the feeling there must be some sort of non verbal queue to go along with the figure of speech when people use them which is why NTs are able to understand a phrase despite not hearing it before. Even though I know the correct use of some phrases, when I do try and use them I sometimes get strange looks, so I think I might not be using the correct inflection or body language to match them.

I like some forms of poetry, particularly ones with strict rules, such as villanelles and terzanelles. Ones that use interesting rhymes.

There is enjoyment in nice words linked together in a considered way, but when they become too confusing I get annoyed. I don't like the type of poetry that is supposed to be 'stream of thought' or something; the lack of grammar, random lengths and meters of the lines, random line breaks and gaps make them frustrating to read and don't make me 'feel' anything other than annoyance because I don't understand the author's use of them.


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16 Jul 2013, 3:52 am

I used to take things literally and not get jokes, but because I live in a family that uses those phrases all the time and have a good sense of humor, I understand more now.



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16 Jul 2013, 7:21 pm

AtticusKane wrote:

I decided a while ago, probably around freshman year of high school, that those literature books and teachers often don't know what they're talking about. To try and impose all these deep symbolic meanings into a work is missing the point of the art. What tipped me off was the multiple choice tests asking about the authors intention by using a certain word. I thought, man, there is no way that these people can know what this ancient poet "intended" by using this specific word. Art and philosophy are fluid, I think. Ancient art or old books or whatever can hold new meaning in light of modern times, or from different perspectives. To teach rigid meanings of art just makes a bunch of NT kids zone out and nod along and never care, and the rest of us groan in exasperation because we can tell how utterly stupid the whole damn thing is.


That may well be. My American Literature instructor said that all kinds of meaning was attributed to the works of Mark Twain, but that in reality most of what Twain wrote was simply for the money.



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16 Jul 2013, 7:52 pm

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A few weeks ago I got an email about a company breakfast that said please bring a dish. I showed up with my own plate only to realize they meant food so I retreated to my office and ate a granola bar.

I am 32 years old.

I once recently was asked for a count of ipads at my school when it was 5 minutes until quitting time on a Friday. I replied that I was leaving and would email the count on Monday.

Their reply said "ok great, I look forward to the count on Monday."

I replied with " what is so exciting about an inventory count? You actually are excited and looking forward to it?"

She replied "No, I just meant Monday is fine."

I think this is more along what "taking things literally" means.


I think like.this a lot. Thank goodnezs i take things a bit better (i would not have misunderstood.fbe dish reference because i love to cook and meals get reffered to as dishes) but i get other stuff literally.