neongrl wrote:
Eating can be kind of an annoying interruption, especially if you don't know what you want. Meal replacement shakes are good at times like that.
The meal replacement shakes are ok, but they all have to be the same flavors. If they aren't, I'll just stand at the refrigerator door trying to decide and then shut it in frustration and go hungry. Above all, they have to be already in there. I will starve before I go to the grocery store. I find that place to be completely obnoxious with all the people and smells. Invariably, someone in there feels the need to "help" me, probably because I stand there with a blank look on my face because there are too may decisions to make, and they end up talking to me or touching me. At that point, I just abruptly leave.
It's better for me to be with someone who wants to control all of that. That way, he just puts it in front of me when it's time to eat and makes sure I stop writing to eat it. (We do have some big fights over this when I don't want to stop.) But, on the whole, it is so much less stressful to me to have him decide what I'm going to eat, do whatever he does to make it (he's into that whole food thing) and put it in front of me. That's been the nature of our relationship since he met me in college when he realized I would literally starve if someone didn't take care of it. He basically took over where my roommate (who was in the 8th year of seeking her MRS degree) left off.