zer0netgain wrote:
A person with ADHD has a problem staying focused pretty much on anything and everything.
That is not true at all. People with ADHD can experience hyperfocus. I do, and so does my son. In fact, now that I am thinking it through, every single person I know with ADHD has periods of hyperfocus. I'm not saying all do. But everyone that I am thinking of now does.
One of the main reasons I didn't realize I had ADHD for so many years was because I viewed myself as being able to pay attention because I could think of plenty of hyper-focus type moments. I can become so absorbed in a book, for example, that I don't even realize I am reading and it can be hard for someone to get my attention. At work, I have to set a timer to go off, or I will invariably forget to leave to go home. Yet my head is like a tv with all channels simultaneously blaring, I cannot sit still for longer than maybe 3 minutes (something has to move, even if it's just wiggling my toes in my shoes), I have dozens of started projects that will never be finished, I can get distracted by the whir of the computer fan, I sometimes have to read the same passage 4-5 times before I understand it if it is not of interest to me, my mind can go off on a tangent and never get back to where it was meant to be, I spend half of my life--it seems--trying to find something or trying to remember why I got up and walked into another room, and I have issues with organization that sometimes nearly disable me.
I do agree with those who say that it is hard to tell where one starts and the other stops. My son has NLD which presents a lot like mild AS, and sometimes it is really a toss up whether something is due to that or his ADHD.
I, myself, am not sure I am convinced that ASD and ADHD do not belong in the same bucket. Yes, they are different, but I think they are more similar to each other than either is to NT wiring. I suspect that someday we will understand how they are linked, and they will be considered different variants of some larger condition.
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Mom to 2 exceptional atypical kids
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