Do you occasionally notice facial expressions?

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23 Feb 2014, 3:15 am

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I am wondering if others in the forum simply don’t notice this stuff because they are not looking for it? Or, they miss it entirely because it is so subtle? Or, they see it, but interpret it incorrectly? Or, they notice it when it is that obvious? Just curious.

I have never been blind to facial expressions, even in daycare age I picked up on them. But at that age I thought others showing negative emotions meant they were showing something too personal, so I would look away so they could compose themselves.
For years I saw it and interpreted it right more often than not, but didn't know I was supposed to read it. I tended to get the meaning but I didn't see it as communication and was blown away when my father said it was. I was 9 then.
In some cases I saw it when I was younger without seeing it but have realized later when thinking about the incident and have interpreted it then.

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It is pretty obvious a smile means happieness and a frown means anger and a pout means sad...

Actually there are a lot of different smiles. Smiles can be mocking, insincere, forced... and a frown can be different discontent feelings milder than and other than anger, and I'd see a pout as sulking, not sad. Sad looks different.


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23 Feb 2014, 8:31 am

Of course I do! It's looking at the person that's the problem lol

But when I do look at a person I understand the basic facial expressions but when they get more complicated it gets tricky and I usually screw up. Also, it makes me nervous.

My problem is that I do not remember faces except for things like hair. At work, one of my coworkers that I work with a lot got a haircut and I had no idea who he was until he sat in his cubicle. Good thing people at my work stay in one place a lot!


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23 Feb 2014, 2:31 pm

I am actually really super sensitive to facial expression. I always am asking "what's that face for" to people. And they think its rude. Silly NTs!


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23 Feb 2014, 4:30 pm

Watching a person's face, not eyes, must be the way NTs converse if they include facial micro-expressions in their conversations. If I watch someones face as I converse with them I find it upsetting; as though I was trying to converse with them and at the same time trying to interpret the foreign language of their face.

If another person joins the conversation I lose it. KWIM?

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23 Feb 2014, 4:57 pm

Watching a person's face, not eyes, must be the way NTs converse if they include facial micro-expressions in their conversations. If I watch someones face as I converse with them I find it upsetting; as though I was trying to converse with them and at the same time trying to interpret the foreign language of their face.

If another person joins the conversation I lose it. KWIM?

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23 Feb 2014, 4:59 pm

Watching a person's face, not eyes, must be the way NTs converse if they include facial micro-expressions in their conversations. If I watch someones face as I converse with them I find it upsetting; as though I was trying to converse with them and at the same time trying to interpret the foreign language of their face.

If another person joins the conversation I lose it. KWIM?

Denny