1. I view marriage as permanent. Filing for divorce would be shameful for me
Agreed.
2. People change all the time, who says a nice pretty woman can't turn into a drug addict psychopath?
They could. Don't date one that does drugs right now is a good starting point.
3. I get sick of people no matter what, even my own family. The longer I am around someone the more sick of them I get.
It could happen, can't argue that.
4. I feel pressured to get married, and whenever I feel pressured to do something, I tend not to do it well, or at all.
No opinion.
5. I'm afraid my wife won't like things about me I can't change (AS Syndrome mainly)
Could. You could date an Aspie. I have reason to believe my wife is. Start by dating smart women.
6. I think I'm bad at being social
Could be. Again, date an Aspie girl then.
7. I think I'm bad at being intimate
Dunno, the moment a girl gives you a hummer you might change your mind.
8. I think straight women talk too much
IMO better than 50% likely, especially for NT straight women.
9. I think straight women are too emotional
Could be true.
10. I think straight women take things the wrong way all the time
All the time?
11. I'm afraid I will take things the wrong way
You will. But you get to be with somebody instead of being alone.
12. I think women with houses throw freak tantrums about how clean their house is
Not my wife.
13. I think married women throw freak tantrums about doing "all the work themselves" when often times they are the one with the lesser job
Misogyny rears its ugly head. Don't ever let a convo go down that path if you get married to a woman.
14. I think married women are praised for getting a divorce for "not being happy" while men are shamed for getting a divorce
Disagree concerning the praise part. Don't have time for presenting evidence.
15. I think after a while, married women start getting physically unattractive for their partner and I'm afraid I will feel as if my spouse deceived me from the first moment I looked at her (fat married women)
My wife is still thin. Yeah she looks older, but I look older too. Hint from NT's - check out the mom.
16. Lots of women are femi-nazis
Diasgree, but even with that, I had a 'feminist' friend in college, she was a blast to talk and chat with. She had the best feminist jokes too. Just didn't seem like a good match though; me a nerd, and she was in some sort of liberal arts as I recall.
17. I think women lie about not wanting kids and will do anything to get kids, like poking holes in condoms
My wife laid down the law before marriage, she said she wanted kids, and didn't mind being a stay-at-home mom. I do believe she is in the minority though. A friend had something like you speak, she got 'on top' and wouldn't get off, because he wouldn't marry her. Fast forward to now, they are still married. Point is, its not EVERY chick. Besides, kids are great! When you come home they run to the door screaming daddy! daddy! daddy! How could you not like that. When they become teenagers they become surly, especially the Aspie ones.
18. I think married women try to control and manipulate their partner by refraining from sex
Um, it happens.
An aside. Some of you write so well! I feel like crap when I read what you so well put to words!
07 Mar 2014, 2:13 pm
