KingdomOfRats wrote:
animals tend to hate the ones who fuss over them,who give them less eye contact,who let them choose when they want to be given contact,many on the spectrum respect these boundaries of animals because we act in the same way as them so it works well.
I really think you got it right with this observation, KoR.
We're skittish, wary, move with deliberation & caution, don't like unexpected touches, noises, prolonged eye contact, or other surprises in our environment, and tend to respect that in other creatures, which I think they immediately notice.
Not that all animals love me, but the ones that get snarky or violent I just growl at, and for the most part I'm way bigger so they always back down.
However, most animals seem to like me pretty well, even if it's a little disconcerting sometimes that the pets than don't like anyone come over & like me right away a lot of the times.