Welcome...
I'm an old man now, but when I was in my 20's I realized that it turned off most folks when I ran my mouth. I called it "spilling my guts." I struggled against it forever... it's so embarrassing. There's one really excellent site on the www, where one can share, and only people that are genuinely interested follow back... tumblr. Even deviantart.com is strangely social and demanding.
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Everything is falling.