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20 Aug 2014, 9:55 pm

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At the coffee shop I worked at we wore uniforms - sometimes the one assistant manger would go around pointing out who hadn't washed their uniform and the one time she got me, I guess I had gotten some small amount of mud on the cuffs of my pants from walking home in the rain the day before... I hadn't noticed. (And behind a counter no customer would see it anyway!) The kicker is that I was only given one pair of pants and one shirt! Well at the time I lived in an apartment with no laundry facilities, and when I would wash my shirt by hand sometimes the next day it wasn't even dry! So I thought eff it - if she thinks I'm walking all the way to a laundromat just to wash & dry one pair of pants she's dreaming! People :roll:

middle class people [bosses] don't understand working class people [worker bees], they have totally different frames of reference.



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20 Aug 2014, 10:01 pm

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little_blue_jay wrote:
At the coffee shop I worked at we wore uniforms - sometimes the one assistant manger would go around pointing out who hadn't washed their uniform and the one time she got me, I guess I had gotten some small amount of mud on the cuffs of my pants from walking home in the rain the day before... I hadn't noticed. (And behind a counter no customer would see it anyway!) The kicker is that I was only given one pair of pants and one shirt! Well at the time I lived in an apartment with no laundry facilities, and when I would wash my shirt by hand sometimes the next day it wasn't even dry! So I thought eff it - if she thinks I'm walking all the way to a laundromat just to wash & dry one pair of pants she's dreaming! People :roll:

middle class people [bosses] don't understand working class people [worker bees], they have totally different frames of reference.


Yeah. I mean, if they want me to come in with my uniform sparkling clean every single day, well give me enough pairs of pants and shirts to last 2 weeks. (that would be the day!) It took me 2 weeks to get enough dirty laundry gathered up to make walking 25 minutes each way to the laundromat worthwhile.

And even then - it was a donut shop, sometimes 2 minutes after starting my shift I'd pack a box of donuts and the powdered ones would shed their powder and somehow I'd have white powdered sugar on my nice clean shirt anyway :roll: :lol:


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20 Aug 2014, 10:06 pm

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Yeah. I mean, if they want me to come in with my uniform sparkling clean every single day, well give me enough pairs of pants and shirts to last 2 weeks. (that would be the day!) It took me 2 weeks to get enough dirty laundry gathered up to make walking 25 minutes each way to the laundromat worthwhile.
And even then - it was a donut shop, sometimes 2 minutes after starting my shift I'd pack a box of donuts and the powdered ones would shed their powder and somehow
I'd have white powdered sugar on my nice clean shirt anyway :roll: :lol:

it is the "let them eat cake" mentality, IOW your boss probably doesn't understand why you would not have laundry facilities in your place, IOW she does and that means everybody else must have also, IOW a fail at theory of mind. your boss probably thinks that you ought to just have enough money [no matter how poorly he or she is paying you] to live someplace fancier. there is no dealing with that rightist mindset.



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20 Aug 2014, 11:14 pm

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middle class people [bosses] don't understand working class people [worker bees], they have totally different frames of reference.


EXACTLY! So true!

And especially when the middle class bosses live in urban/suburban areas and their working class employees live in rural areas. They do NOT get it.

I work from home. My boss sends me extra supplies I don't need, and then tells me to just throw away whatever I don't need. Well I live out in the country where we don't have public trash services or recycling services to come around and pick stuff up, and it takes a lot of effort to deal with it on your own. I hate seeing things end up in landfills so I try to recycle or donate as much as I can anyway.

I asked him not to send me any supplies unless it's something I've asked for. You'd think it would be appreciated that I want to reduce waste and save the company money, but no, it's not. But of course no one has a clue that I don't have any trash pickup, because EVERYONE has that, right?



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20 Aug 2014, 11:24 pm

that is why I believe that most businesses should have job swaps once per year, where the lower-ranks experience what it takes to run a business, and the bosses experience what it is like to do all the hard work of making product.



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20 Aug 2014, 11:31 pm

auntblabby wrote:
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Yeah. I mean, if they want me to come in with my uniform sparkling clean every single day, well give me enough pairs of pants and shirts to last 2 weeks. (that would be the day!) It took me 2 weeks to get enough dirty laundry gathered up to make walking 25 minutes each way to the laundromat worthwhile.
And even then - it was a donut shop, sometimes 2 minutes after starting my shift I'd pack a box of donuts and the powdered ones would shed their powder and somehow
I'd have white powdered sugar on my nice clean shirt anyway :roll: :lol:

it is the "let them eat cake" mentality, IOW your boss probably doesn't understand why you would not have laundry facilities in your place, IOW she does and that means everybody else must have also, IOW a fail at theory of mind. your boss probably thinks that you ought to just have enough money [no matter how poorly he or she is paying you] to live someplace fancier. there is no dealing with that rightist mindset.


Sorry what's IOW?


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20 Aug 2014, 11:33 pm

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Sorry what's IOW?

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20 Aug 2014, 11:34 pm

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I work from home.


Sorry me again, I don't know how to multi-quote :?

If you don't mind me asking, what type of work do you do from home?

I guess one of these days I need to start a thread on this in the work forum - as I can't do standing jobs anymore I need ideas of kinds of work people do from home that I can start investigating...


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20 Aug 2014, 11:35 pm

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:oops:

Did not think of that! Sorry the humidity here is making me short of breath and my brain very sluggish!


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20 Aug 2014, 11:39 pm

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:oops:

Did not think of that! Sorry the humidity here is making me short of breath and my brain very sluggish!

I feel your discomfort, it is humid here also :hmph: Image but it doesn't take humidity to make my brain sluggish, just living does that :oops:



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20 Aug 2014, 11:44 pm

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If you don't mind me asking, what type of work do you do from home?


I work as a field sales rep. I don't actually work at home, but I work from home because there's no company office to report to. So I have to store all my supplies at home.



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21 Aug 2014, 2:40 am

auntblabby wrote:
little_blue_jay wrote:
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:oops:

Did not think of that! Sorry the humidity here is making me short of breath and my brain very sluggish!

I feel your discomfort, it is humid here also :hmph: Image but it doesn't take humidity to make my brain sluggish, just living does that :oops:


Haha love your sweaty emoticon, funny!

Yeah just living does that to me too, but with humidity it's 10X worse :(


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21 Aug 2014, 2:41 am

dianthus wrote:
little_blue_jay wrote:
If you don't mind me asking, what type of work do you do from home?


I work as a field sales rep. I don't actually work at home, but I work from home because there's no company office to report to. So I have to store all my supplies at home.


Ohhh I see.. K, yeah I don't think that would be a job for me! Thanks though!


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21 Aug 2014, 9:34 am

I wash them when they look dirty. I now have three pairs and it is still a problem. I guess I can not wear the same pair more then once per week.


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