btbnnyr wrote:
Both of my parents are BAP, as are many of my relatives.
My parents are BAP in different ways, my father having most of the social traits of autism and special interest, and my mother having various sensory traits of autism.
My father is overall more autistic than my mother.
His autistic traits are as strong or stronger than most diagnosed HFA's autistic traits, but he is not diagnosed, so I consider him BAP.
Many in my maternal family are BAP, including my mom, who I suspect would be diagnosed with ASD if she were assessed. There are also traits in my paternal family.
I don't think that many in the family consider these autistic traits, but just regard their social awkwardness and very restricted interests as quirks and eccentricities. I have not disclosed my diagnosis or my son's with most of my family, but it's evident that the uncle I did talk to about this discussed it widely with others. Several people have subsequently said something along the lines of, "so now we know why you are so weird." And they have suggested that related traits run through the family.