What is their experience being treated by teachers at school

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09 Jul 2017, 10:58 am

MonochromeMatryoshka wrote:
My secondary school experience (so far) has been extremely different to my primary.

I remember in 1st class (1st grade or so, age 7) I had a teacher who tripped me up once and scolded me for falling... Made me pick up things and clean up after other students. She'd single me out and shout at me etc. Not very fun. She made a few kids have bedwetting problems... She called me a few things which were pretty immature and drilled into me that I was a liar, cheat and awfully stupid.
In around 3rd grade/class I had another teacher who used to throw things at me. She was pretty ok, but I remember us having a birthday calendar for the class, and she refused to list mine. Then when my birthday came along, I asked if we had homework, she told me I wasn't special so why should I be treated that way.
Fourth grade/class was when I was diagnosed. She refused the diagnosis and insisted I was just hypersensitive. Made me cry multiple times in class... We told her that I hate loud noises, and if I need to have a meltdown I'll go to the toilet to console myself. This happened, she called a student to go and drag me back to class. She would scream at me for not understanding fractions and tell me how it was so frustrating to teach me because it was such an easy concept that only the dumbest of dumb wouldn't understand it...
Another teacher who I had for two years (he was pretty amazing apart from this) denied that a boy bullied me despite me having to go home after this boy knocked me to the ground and hurting my head to the point that I nearly ended up in a hospital... this boy would taunt me constantly and beat me up too damn often. I got him back in the last year of school... This teacher also let us slap eachother for getting answers wrong and threw things at us.

A few teachers let other kids accuse me of bullying, cheating etc. and then punished me for it, though it was them who did it. I told someone some of the things my teachers did/let students do and I think it's called gaslighting? I'm not completely sure though.

Sorry for my wall of text... I know it's kinda dumb considering most of you have experienced FAR worse than I have, but I'm just a bit of a crybaby. :? For the record, I went to a regular Catholic school.


You should have this teacher arrested for child abuse..What you experienced was appalling and dont think it was anything less than child abuse.People like this cannot be allowed to remain in their jobs working with other children.The damage they inflict upon other peoples lives can be lifelong.Please if you havent already speak to your parents about this and take them to court.Im sure there were probably other children in that school who could also back up this abuse.Its disgusting.You sound resilient and I hope your life is a lot nicer now x



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09 Jul 2017, 12:53 pm

I mostly had great teachers, 5th grade was the only real exception. I was about 10 or 11 and every time I did anything out of the "ordinary" she would draw attention to me and get everybody to laugh at me. I liked to fidget with pens and pencils (not loudly or in any way that would be distracting) and she would take them away from me so I would cry and have a meltdown and then the other kids would make fun of me and even throw things at me. She definitely played favorites, and her favorite of the girls was this girl who acted sweet to adults and was a jerk to other kids, especially those who were "different". I was so terrified the following summer that my next teacher would be like that, but thankfully my 6th grade teacher was amazing.


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09 Jul 2017, 1:21 pm

I was only in a special class in first grade. The teacher actually treated me quite well. I did a higher level of work in first grade than I did in the three years that followed, when I was in regular classes. My fourth grade teacher was a real fool, saying things like, "How, did you know that?" I thought to myself, "I read it." I was reading the "Family Medical Guide," a Reader's Digest publication, in the third grade. Also, this guy's favorite word was "unreal." He was as weird and unreal as it got. I didn't mind tough teachers, because they really made me work, and I got the best grades with them. At this time, they really began the dumbing down of the school curriculum. A lot of the mindless stuff they made us do slowed me way down in math.



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10 Jul 2017, 4:16 am

My main confusion with teachers was that everyone else seemed to effortlessly become their favourites and even though I was usually at the top of the class they never seemed to like me, I realise now it's probably because I'm just not good at socialising and I come off too awkward but it upset me for my whole school life. This isn't comparable to a lot of the awful stuff people in this thread have had to deal with though.

What this thread reminds me of is when I was doing work experience in primary school a couple of weeks ago (I'm going into teacher training soon) and there was a boy in class who seemed to have several autistic hallmarks which stopped him getting on in class and was constantly yelled at. It just made me sad because I mentioned it to the teacher and autism hadn't occured to him and the parents thought he was their special boy etc. but he just needed someone to help him not have meltdowns in class, I imagine he was having a similar school experience to some of you guys.


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