Am I on autism spectrum ? You be the judge
Excellent
You finally got something right.
Maybe I am just an introvert misanthrope, with a knack for debate.
And apparently 100 times smarter than most aspies, autists , and schizos on here.
Perhaps I'm a brand new classification of being science has so far yet to unearth.
and far be it for me to judge,
but most aspies and autistics on here seem to have quite a bit of mind blindness, and inability to realize they are being rude.
I'm just looking for answers, just like everyone else on here.
How would you possibly know that? There is no quantifiable measure of smartness.
Possible, but not likely
but most aspies and autistics on here seem to have quite a bit of mind blindness, and inability to realize they are being rude.
Rudeness is somewhat subjective. People will often infer a rude intent, even when there was none, because they take things personally and react emotionally.
Approximately 1/3 of the text in your response could be considered "rude".
but of course, you already knew that, because you seem to think you are omniscient.
maybe I am on the ASD spectrum, there are a very wide diversity of people
on the ASD spectrum. you could be talking to a fellow aspie, without understanding that you are.
You asked to be judged--or did you forget what you wrote at the title?
You don't seem to be an Aspie because you expect a much higher level of social intercourse that you are getting here, which I think of as Planet Aspie. But, you certainly could be on the Aspie spectrum, but, you asked, and I don't see the signs. One wonders how you got your social expectations?
And also stuck up your own ass. You ask for their opinion and you tell them they're wrong. I don't know what you want people to say - probably have an idea in your mind and want them to say that and nothing else. This is not asking us to judge, this is asking us to say what you want us to.
The only way to determine if you are autistic is to see a professional on it. We cannot tell you. I don't personally think so, as none of what you've said strikes me as "yeah, that's definitely autistic", but who am I to say? I am 17 years old, and not a professional. See someone on your concerns with what you've listed here. That's the only advice I have. Oh, and don't respond so negatively to people trying to help. We are blunt but that doesn't mean we're trying to be rude.
Where did I do that?
adjective
1 Offensively impolite or ill-mannered:
It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that people have differing opinions of what they consider to be rude.
It largely depends on where you grew up, and in what time period.
I don't have money for a doctor right now,
so we'll have to do our best using circumstantial evidence.
there are a lot of facts about me that make me suspect that I may be on the spectrum somewhere, either Aspergers, PDD, or some type of schizoid condition ( which I am not too fond of, but I need to consider everything).
please let me know your opinion.
leaves are some solid facts about me that I know I have:
1. I rock and hum all the time when I am alone, and sometimes in public when I am very anxious. happens a lot what I am in big groups. I also tap my fingers on objects constantly, hum in public for comfort, and whistle a lot which makes me feel comfortable.
2. I have a long list of allergies, which was confirmed by an allergist doctor when I was 9 years old. it includes grass, pollen, trees, dust, cockroaches, and other
insects. 5 years ago I developed food allergies and I was at allegies to antibiotics.
Garlic, onions, and an entire class of antibiotics known as sulfas.
3. I get extremely heart palpitations when in confrontations.
4. I get upset and paranoid in social situations I cannot understand or cannot control. this is a huge problem for me. my 3rd grade teacher wrote on my report card that I would get upset and or cry when I didn't understand what was going on around me socially.
5. I have a variety of special interests. including maths, linguistics, etymology, music, learning songs on the guitar and violin, and a handful more. I find the subjects outside these areas quite boring. like history class which I always failed.
I just cannot for the life of me stay interested in subjects I have no interest in.
4. I've had sleep paralysis ever since I was 10 years old.
and it is often quite frightening and upsetting to me.
I recently had a sleep paralysis episode a couple of months ago.
5. I have frequent insomnia. which makes me irritable all the time.
6. my executive functioning is very poor. I often cannot get up the energy, or interest to accomplish things during the day. I am consistently late for an appointment I may have. this is a big issue for me, and it makes me feel really really bad.
7. I often have no filter when I speak to people in public.
often, I say the first thing that comes to my mind, especially when I meet people in public.
8. low energy, lethargy. this is a killer for me.
people see that I am tired all the time and they tend not to like me.
9. I have constant chronic depression, and I have had periods of very deep depression. during periods of deep depression I sleep 10 to 12 hours a day.
which of course makes me even more depressed.
10. loud noises upset me, and when they happen I often snap at people.
I punched my brother in the stomach for cheering at a football ga
me once. Because he was making too much noise and he hurt me by yelling at the tv.
11. I have a desperate need to be completely alone for long periods of time.
or else I have a meltdown, I break down emotionally. but I usually do not make a scene in public, I simply shut down in public and cannot interact with people.
so what do you think ?
is this Aspergers, schizoid, or pdd ?
I am at a loss at this point, any help would be appreciated.
It's hard for me to say because those can be part of anything. I would say go see a professional about it.
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Son: Diagnosed w/anxiety and ADHD. Also academic delayed and ASD lv 1.
Daughter: NT, no diagnoses. Possibly OCD. Is very private about herself.
The fact that you find the logical, straightforward posts of Aspies to be offensive is a HUGE clue that you do not have ASD. Starkid said nothing in his first post that a fellow aspie would find offensive. I thought he was being helpful.
My guess (and that's all it can be) is that you have social anxiety and a bit of hypochondria. I say hypochondria because a) you mention a lot of small symptoms that are common to many people and are not considered part of any condition, and b) you've already spoken to at least one doctor about this. I get the impression (could be wrong) that you visit doctors a lot.
I don't know what you are, Darlin. But I do know that you are not alone! I don't know what I am either, but we seem to be quite a bit alike, so that counts for something. Don't be sad. I love language, music, have allergies, & sleep paralysis. Loud sounds bother me too. It is noon now & I am in a dark room watching Ancient Aliens instead of going to my kids' "fun day" at school at the moment, which to me is "hell day". Especially since it is rainy here & not outside. The acoustics of screaming kids in a gym with no padding on the walls or floors to absorb the sound waves was too much for me to handle. I couldn't do it. Thinking about it made me want to go into the fetal position. I am writing a test for a girl I'm tutoring on the Illiad & Odyssey now. I am fascinated with Antiquity & all things 'dead' including parapsychology which I absorb like a sponge. But I always flunked history too! They didn't teach Ancient History. So, it bored me to tears. I can't remember dates. I don't even know today's date, & I'm not kidding. You and I seem to be of the same ilk. It comforts me to know that I am not alone, although I am technically alone. You know?
I don't have money for a doctor right now,
so we'll have to do our best using circumstantial evidence.
there are a lot of facts about me that make me suspect that I may be on the spectrum somewhere, either Aspergers, PDD, or some type of schizoid condition ( which I am not too fond of, but I need to consider everything).
please let me know your opinion.
leaves are some solid facts about me that I know I have:
1. I rock and hum all the time when I am alone, and sometimes in public when I am very anxious. happens a lot what I am in big groups. I also tap my fingers on objects constantly, hum in public for comfort, and whistle a lot which makes me feel comfortable.
2. I have a long list of allergies, which was confirmed by an allergist doctor when I was 9 years old. it includes grass, pollen, trees, dust, cockroaches, and other
insects. 5 years ago I developed food allergies and I was at allegies to antibiotics.
Garlic, onions, and an entire class of antibiotics known as sulfas.
3. I get extremely heart palpitations when in confrontations.
4. I get upset and paranoid in social situations I cannot understand or cannot control. this is a huge problem for me. my 3rd grade teacher wrote on my report card that I would get upset and or cry when I didn't understand what was going on around me socially.
5. I have a variety of special interests. including maths, linguistics, etymology, music, learning songs on the guitar and violin, and a handful more. I find the subjects outside these areas quite boring. like history class which I always failed.
I just cannot for the life of me stay interested in subjects I have no interest in.
4. I've had sleep paralysis ever since I was 10 years old.
and it is often quite frightening and upsetting to me.
I recently had a sleep paralysis episode a couple of months ago.
5. I have frequent insomnia. which makes me irritable all the time.
6. my executive functioning is very poor. I often cannot get up the energy, or interest to accomplish things during the day. I am consistently late for an appointment I may have. this is a big issue for me, and it makes me feel really really bad.
7. I often have no filter when I speak to people in public.
often, I say the first thing that comes to my mind, especially when I meet people in public.
8. low energy, lethargy. this is a killer for me.
people see that I am tired all the time and they tend not to like me.
9. I have constant chronic depression, and I have had periods of very deep depression. during periods of deep depression I sleep 10 to 12 hours a day.
which of course makes me even more depressed.
10. loud noises upset me, and when they happen I often snap at people.
I punched my brother in the stomach for cheering at a football ga
me once. Because he was making too much noise and he hurt me by yelling at the tv.
11. I have a desperate need to be completely alone for long periods of time.
or else I have a meltdown, I break down emotionally. but I usually do not make a scene in public, I simply shut down in public and cannot interact with people.
so what do you think ?
is this Aspergers, schizoid, or pdd ?
I am at a loss at this point, any help would be appreciated.
She's schizoid but I agree. We're blunt and say what we think, and the fact our bluntness and being straight to the point looks rude suggests to me OP's not a literal thinker like most autistic people. I thought it was a very helpful post and OP got offended somehow. I don't get it. No way to please some people I guess?
And I have to laugh at this thread a little bit. 'WE' (not gonna label it, cause there may not be a label & what the hell difference does it make anyhow) all seem to come across to others as rude. I piss people off unintentionally constantly. But together as a whole, we will have a tendency to all piss each other off. I always think other people are being rude to me, & vice versa. It is what it is. Communicating is the hardest. Why can't we all just get along, man?!
Personally, I do have to throw this one in though, almost nothing pisses me off more than being called a hypochondriac. I'm not crazy, & neither am I! Or am I? I'll never tell. Bwahahaha.
Why do people have to be negative & put frowny faces up? Where does that get anyone? Aren't we here to support one another? Not tear each other down. Play nice, my babies.
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Personally, I do have to throw this one in though, almost nothing pisses me off more than being called a hypochondriac. I'm not crazy, & neither am I! Or am I? I'll never tell. Bwahahaha.
Why do people have to be negative & put frowny faces up? Where does that get anyone? Aren't we here to support one another? Not tear each other down. Play nice, my babies.
I can't tell if you're joking or not. I can't tell in your other posts either. Or anyone in the thread about your shrink, I understood none of those people who posted there. They all seem... very NT, but self diagnosed. I don't get it. The 3 (or was it 4?) seem very different to the rest of the site, that's for sure. You 3 (or 4) can relate very well to each other, but none of us can relate to OP (who relates to you in your thread). Does that not strike you as odd?


