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09 Jul 2015, 9:31 am

Prominent.

I think that is a good word to call those kinds of people, since they do kind of stick out a bit and the word itself doesn't have a negative connotation.



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09 Jul 2015, 9:34 am

Unless you're talking about somebody's nose :P



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09 Jul 2015, 9:52 am

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Hmmm......I wonder how a word that originally meant "normal" came to be so pejorative? Could it be that at one time it was felt that ordinary people were horrid?

Absolutely.

The idea comes from the feudal era, when class division was enforced with the sword.

Similar ideas can be found in the words "knave" (now a bit archaic) and "villain." In England villain is synonymous with criminal, but originated in a medieval term for a free commoner, subject to a lord, but not a serf. A knave originally meant "boy" but then came to mean "male servant" and then "rogue, lowlife" and finally "dishonest, untrustworthy, unreliable."

Only the rich and powerful are good, in that way of thinking.



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09 Jul 2015, 9:58 am

I've heard women call a guy who is a "player" a "knave."

Spelled "villein": wasn't a "villein" "unfree" in some way--unlike a "yeoman," who was a "free farmer?"

"Commoner" is very, very broad. I believe it could even include a noble who is not of the royal lineage.

Edward VIII married a "commoner." She came from a wealthy family. People were up in arms about this fact. He abdicated soon after he ascended the throne because of this.



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09 Jul 2015, 10:39 am

Adamantium wrote:
ToughDiamond wrote:
Hmmm......I wonder how a word that originally meant "normal" came to be so pejorative? Could it be that at one time it was felt that ordinary people were horrid?

Absolutely.

The idea comes from the feudal era, when class division was enforced with the sword.

Similar ideas can be found in the words "knave" (now a bit archaic) and "villain." In England villain is synonymous with criminal, but originated in a medieval term for a free commoner, subject to a lord, but not a serf. A knave originally meant "boy" but then came to mean "male servant" and then "rogue, lowlife" and finally "dishonest, untrustworthy, unreliable."

Only the rich and powerful are good, in that way of thinking.


Good examples of the common way words can morph in meaning.

In fact "villian" originally originally just meant "someone who lived in a village" (ie "a rural commoner" "peasant")( the word retains that fossil kinship to the word 'village' in its sound-kinda like "ornery" still sounds like the word "ordinary"). And then it went through all of the above meanings (all having to do with feudal medeaval society), before arriving at its modern meaning: the vital character who makes Hollywood movies thrilling by fighting the good guy.

Some words are the opposite- and were UPwardly mobile. The middle ages word for "the guy who feeds the pigs" became "steward/stewardess" ( "sty ward").



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09 Jul 2015, 10:41 am

Medieval societies were complicated and there's probably more than one meaning--but my sense is that a villein was something like a sharecropper. Not a slave, but not a landowner. A subsistence farmer who owed labor to their lord--who actually owned the land. A Yeoman was a landowner. A serf was a obligated to work the land and serfdom was hereditary. So a villein was not the lowest rank but somewhere between a slave and freeholder...

Being a commoner just means not being nobility. This has nothing to do with wealth--an incompetent noble can lose their wealth easily enough and a competent commoner can become very rich.

But the main idea that carries forward is that the gentlemen and ladies could think of these people (villeins, knaves, ordinary people) as the scum of the earth.

The logical companion to this idea is in the word noble. Noble carries two senses now: being a member of the nobility, or being really good in some way--having virtue, honor, decency, integrity, etc.



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09 Jul 2015, 10:51 am

So--if you were of noble rank, yet not of the royal lineage, you were not a commoner?

In America, with great frequency, sharecroppers were "de facto" bound to the land because of debts. And other reasons. This was especially true if one was a "freedman."

I would bet it was the same, in some sense, with villeins. Like maybe having some "indenture" obligation?



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09 Jul 2015, 10:56 am

Adamantium wrote:
Medieval societies were complicated and there's probably more than one meaning--but my sense is that a villein was something like a sharecropper. Not a slave, but not a landowner. A subsistence farmer who owed labor to their lord--who actually owned the land. A Yeoman was a landowner. A serf was a obligated to work the land and serfdom was hereditary. So a villein was not the lowest rank but somewhere between a slave and freeholder...

Being a commoner just means not being nobility. This has nothing to do with wealth--an incompetent noble can lose their wealth easily enough and a competent commoner can become very rich.

But the main idea that carries forward is that the gentlemen and ladies could think of these people (villeins, knaves, ordinary people) as the scum of the earth.

The logical companion to this idea is in the word noble. Noble carries two senses now: being a member of the nobility, or being really good in some way--having virtue, honor, decency, integrity, etc.


Well... I suspect that a "villian" was a rural commoner who was not a serf. And therefore didnt fit into the feudal heirarchy. A free person not to tied to the land who could move around, and not be easily controlled. Hense you distrusted hense disliked. That evolved into the meaning of "criminal".



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09 Jul 2015, 11:11 am

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I know it's just a dumb internet meme and stereotype, but I definitely notice basic people. I used to call them boring people or super NTs. Glad some regular NTs are noticing how annoying they are as well. It would be nice to have a non-slang term for those people. Don't think anyone will take me seriously if I call people basic.


Hard to think of a word for you to use for this because I am not sure what kinda folks/traits you mean.

You seemed to be taking about folks who are "so normal that theyre abnormal".




Instead of "basic" person maybe "generic person"? Or... "cookie cutter person"?



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09 Jul 2015, 1:20 pm

My conception of the nobility was wrong.

The person who said there was an absolute demarcation between the nobility and "commoners" was correct--even if the noble was not of royal lineage.



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09 Jul 2015, 3:58 pm

naturalplastic wrote:
DevilKisses wrote:
I know it's just a dumb internet meme and stereotype, but I definitely notice basic people. I used to call them boring people or super NTs. Glad some regular NTs are noticing how annoying they are as well. It would be nice to have a non-slang term for those people. Don't think anyone will take me seriously if I call people basic.


Hard to think of a word for you to use for this because I am not sure what kinda folks/traits you mean.

You seemed to be taking about folks who are "so normal that theyre abnormal".




Instead of "basic" person maybe "generic person"? Or... "cookie cutter person"?

I am talking about people who are so normal, they're abnormal. Those people are super annoying. They think they have awesome people skills when they're probably boring and annoying most people in the room. At least socially awkward aspie-ish types are aware of their social awkwardness.


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09 Jul 2015, 4:21 pm

I call them rabble, or common folk.



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09 Jul 2015, 5:15 pm

I wouldn't mind being basic. I could blend in and be anonymous my whole life lol


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09 Jul 2015, 5:17 pm

fillers

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09 Jul 2015, 5:25 pm

We are Rabble-Rousers, us Autistics!



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09 Jul 2015, 8:02 pm

I call them zombies.