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18 Jul 2015, 6:29 pm

No we aren't speaking again but it's still okay now.


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18 Jul 2015, 6:37 pm

starfox wrote:
No we aren't speaking again but it's still okay now.


I just don't get that at all - the let them go thing. It makes me not want to make friends with Aspies. If that's why my one Aspie friend stopped talking to me altogether, I don't think he understands how much that it hurts.


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18 Jul 2015, 6:42 pm

Why are you even here? You can't judge all aspies by one person. Personalities play a part too and actually most don't think the same as me. Nobody is forcing you to make friends with one of us.

Btw it's not me who is dropping people. It's everyone always drops me. They don't like me back, so I'm not going to be a creepy weirdo and keep asking them to talk to me.


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18 Jul 2015, 7:27 pm

starfox wrote:
Btw it's not me who is dropping people. It's everyone always drops me. They don't like me back, so I'm not going to be a creepy weirdo and keep asking them to talk to me.

Sure, you can't be blamed for letting somebody go who has pushed you away.



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19 Jul 2015, 2:19 am

starfox wrote:
Why are you even here? You can't judge all aspies by one person. Personalities play a part too and actually most don't think the same as me. Nobody is forcing you to make friends with one of us.

Btw it's not me who is dropping people. It's everyone always drops me. They don't like me back, so I'm not going to be a creepy weirdo and keep asking them to talk to me.


I'm here because I have Aspie friends. Your friend didn't drop you. You are the one who got mad and told her to go away - is that not true?


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19 Jul 2015, 3:26 am

starfox wrote:
What can I do?! :(



Move on.


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