I used to pile on the quilts, but I would kick them off at night. I love the weight, but I hate hot.
I discovered Army-surplus wool blankets. They're HEAVY, and warm without being too hot. I can't use them in summer, but in winter I put the sheets on the bed, then the wool blanket, then my regular quilt.
They are scratchy at first and I don't like that, but after three or four trips through the dryer they are nice and soft.
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"Alas, our dried voices when we whisper together are quiet and meaningless, as wind in dry grass, or rats' feet over broken glass in our dry cellar." --TS Eliot, "The Hollow Men"