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29 Dec 2015, 6:09 pm

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Quick bit of googling suggests that under NZ law, recording her without her knowledge would not be illegal as you yourself are privvy to the conversation in question. I'd say do it, this is horrific.

Agree. I wouldn't worry about getting into trouble. She is going to get into trouble. She probably chose that job so she can be abusive...



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29 Dec 2015, 6:11 pm

Maybe when you must see her again. Be very unresponsive. Do not speak. Do not look at her or answer any questions. Refuse to follow instructions. She can get mad and shout at your or even hit you but by refusing to do what she says you hold more power. Also you actually have more freedom in recognising that is the worst that can happen. No matter what you get to go home the end of the day. She can't kill you and if she did she would be caught. I realise im taking it pretty far lol. So you are free to disobey and you have a right not to be treated poorly.

To not do this is allowing yourself to be controlled.
Very useful technique if your in a situation you can't change at that time.



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29 Dec 2015, 6:12 pm

Wolfram87 wrote:
Quick bit of googling suggests that under NZ law, recording her without her knowledge would not be illegal as you yourself are privvy to the conversation in question. I'd say do it, this is horrific.


Yeah that's good but I'm worried I might get caught by her and she would get mad.



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29 Dec 2015, 6:14 pm

Just put your phone on record and leave it in your pocket...



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29 Dec 2015, 6:16 pm

Starfoxx wrote:
Wolfram87 wrote:
Quick bit of googling suggests that under NZ law, recording her without her knowledge would not be illegal as you yourself are privvy to the conversation in question. I'd say do it, this is horrific.

Agree. I wouldn't worry about getting into trouble. She is going to get into trouble. She probably chose that job so she can be abusive...


Honestly I think so too because it is not just me. And I think she enjoys feeling in control. Because of what people tell me of her.



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29 Dec 2015, 6:17 pm

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Maybe when you must see her again. Be very unresponsive. Do not speak. Do not look at her or answer any questions. Refuse to follow instructions.


Why?



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29 Dec 2015, 6:19 pm

If you have a smartphone, it can probably record audio. Nice and stealthy. If you have someone you trust, tell them what you plan, and see if they can be close at hand when you do it.


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Starfoxx wrote:
Maybe when you must see her again. Be very unresponsive. Do not speak. Do not look at her or answer any questions. Refuse to follow instructions.


Why?


To incite her bullying. Get a nice helping of it on file.


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29 Dec 2015, 6:20 pm

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Just put your phone on record and leave it in your pocket...


Yeah I might do it if I have her next year and she continues her bullying.



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29 Dec 2015, 6:21 pm

You should look up New Zealand laws pertaining to recording.

And be VERY careful when you carry the device. Sometimes, teachers look for these devices.



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29 Dec 2015, 6:24 pm

Wolfram87 wrote:
If you have a smartphone, it can probably record audio. Nice and stealthy. If you have someone you trust, tell them what you plan, and see if they can be close at hand when you do it.


Aspergirl16 wrote:
Starfoxx wrote:
Maybe when you must see her again. Be very unresponsive. Do not speak. Do not look at her or answer any questions. Refuse to follow instructions.


Why?


To incite her bullying. Get a nice helping of it on file.


Would that be provoking her?



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29 Dec 2015, 6:26 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
You should look up New Zealand laws pertaining to recording.

And be VERY careful when you carry the device. Sometimes, teachers look for these devices.


Someone said that it is illegal to do it in New Zealand.

Yeah I'm scared I might get caught.



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29 Dec 2015, 6:28 pm

Aspergirl16 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
You should look up New Zealand laws pertaining to recording.

And be VERY careful when you carry the device. Sometimes, teachers look for these devices.


Someone said that it is illegal to do it in New Zealand.

Yeah I'm scared I might get caught.

Then you can do nothing. Just allow that to happen. Being afraid is an excuse. Lol people don't realise how much they can actually do.



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29 Dec 2015, 6:31 pm

Starfoxx wrote:
Aspergirl16 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
You should look up New Zealand laws pertaining to recording.

And be VERY careful when you carry the device. Sometimes, teachers look for these devices.


Someone said that it is illegal to do it in New Zealand.

Yeah I'm scared I might get caught.

Then you can do nothing. Just allow that to happen. Being afraid is an excuse. Lol people don't realise how much they can actually do.


Yeah I might do next year if I have her and she continues her bullying.



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29 Dec 2015, 6:32 pm

Aspergirl16 wrote:
Wolfram87 wrote:
If you have a smartphone, it can probably record audio. Nice and stealthy. If you have someone you trust, tell them what you plan, and see if they can be close at hand when you do it.


Aspergirl16 wrote:
Starfoxx wrote:
Maybe when you must see her again. Be very unresponsive. Do not speak. Do not look at her or answer any questions. Refuse to follow instructions.


Why?


To incite her bullying. Get a nice helping of it on file.


Would that be provoking her?


Not to any thinking person. Maybe not overtly refuse to comply, but see if you can do something that's set her off before.


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29 Dec 2015, 6:34 pm

Wolfram87 wrote:
Aspergirl16 wrote:
Wolfram87 wrote:
If you have a smartphone, it can probably record audio. Nice and stealthy. If you have someone you trust, tell them what you plan, and see if they can be close at hand when you do it.


Aspergirl16 wrote:
Starfoxx wrote:
Maybe when you must see her again. Be very unresponsive. Do not speak. Do not look at her or answer any questions. Refuse to follow instructions.


Why?


To incite her bullying. Get a nice helping of it on file.


Would that be provoking her?


Not to any thinking person. Maybe not overtly refuse to comply, but see if you can do something that's set her off before.


Okay, well there are plently of things that set her off lol!



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29 Dec 2015, 6:34 pm

Wolfram87 wrote:
Aspergirl16 wrote:
Wolfram87 wrote:
If you have a smartphone, it can probably record audio. Nice and stealthy. If you have someone you trust, tell them what you plan, and see if they can be close at hand when you do it.


Aspergirl16 wrote:
Starfoxx wrote:
Maybe when you must see her again. Be very unresponsive. Do not speak. Do not look at her or answer any questions. Refuse to follow instructions.


Why?


To incite her bullying. Get a nice helping of it on file.


Would that be provoking her?


Not to any thinking person. Maybe not overtly refuse to comply, but see if you can do something that's set her off before.


I wasn't saying to do that to provoke her, but to save your sanity lol. She will naturally get into trouble over time if she gets angry and starts shouting but if you mentally check out you don't care anymore and don't feel anything.