What are the 6 sexual vehaviors your child might develope?

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Masturbation is a stim for everybody!

I bet that some people like it more thn others.

i did other wird things along those lines, but much, much, different when I was little. things that are rather weird and creepy for alittle girl to be thinking about or doing.

I still think masterbation is a possible stim, even for non-sexual reasons. I once knew a boy who jacked off to old 60's black-and-white movies/sitcoms which had no sex appeal what-so-ever.

Most people grow out of it? At what age? If it was anywhere else I'd have trouble admitting that... Once a day is a bare minimum. Sometimes two or three times a day (I'm 19 years old). Very rarely if I'm busy (or staying at someones house, or in some other situation where its particularly inappropriate) I can get a whole day without doing it.

awesome,, i was a bit embarrassed to bring this one up as a topic..

i think i started MBing when i was about 2 and havent stopped since


im 22 now

my parents always chastised me for it but they never really explained what their thoughts were to me so i took it as random attacks.... mine were the 'try to figure out why im punishing you' type... needless to say it didn't work out very well for me.

I didnt start until I was about 12,but I made up for lost time(LOL).I know that it was more "stimming" then regular MB(<---cute)
because after the first few........,I would continue for hours and even do so while reading a book(not romance,probably about witchs,native americans or Doc Savage,<---he was kind of sexy).The next day it felt like I had done about 100 sit-ups.I think it is why I had almost a six pack,not bad for a female.

Sex is in the brain

This should maybe get moved to the adult section...

This is also something I would not raised personally, but since it has come up.
I relate to Iruka heavily here, and there is nothing sexual about it for me at all - it definitely has a calming affect on my brain and ooften allows me to stop 'thinking' and sleep.

EDIT - corrected usless scentence structre

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Sorry why is masturbation unwanted? It doesn't harm anyone. This kind of thing really makes me mad I can be pretty sure that is con artists that know a think or two how to get attention.

I have consdered moving it,as I dont want anyone to be offended,but.....the whole point is childhood sexuality.I dont like "secrets" being kept from the people being discussed.If that makes any sense.I dont think it should be something that kids should be ashamed of.I hope out of respect,people ill be polite about the topic.Feel free to contact me or another mod if things get to raunchy.

I totally agree here. I also agree that it is more of a calming mechanism than a sexual activity. The more anxious I am, the more I feel the need to do it. On days where I am having a lot of fun and/or having good interactions with other people, I have a much more diminished (if not altogether non-existent) desire to MB, and vice versa. I also have a bizarre fetish with urination that usually precludes MBing. Again, seems to be much more of a calming mechanism than of a sexual nature.

Masturbation is a function is necessary to "maintain the plumbing". If you don't masturbate, you'll more likely have nocturnal emissions. It's coming out one way or another, so why not relieve some stress now and then?

i would say im pretty obsessive in the nature of the matter we're speaking...

i discovered this "nifty trick" @ 6 though i did not know what it was... and thus, had some weird thoughts associated with it, but i grew out of those and have since replaced them with more "natural" topics...

and still today (@ 25)... it is often the lala land i go to... if the person(s) i am speaking to, can't maintain my attention.

ill often prcrastinate and daydream about such stuff to no end as well

All of the things that krex said can be what you may need to look out for. Speaking from personal experiences. I have been masturbating since I could remember. The docters said I would grow out of it, but i didn't! I usual do it to when i'm bored. It feels good to masturbate, not only physicly but mentally. And then after I do that I fall asleep with my hand down there kinda cradling myself. It feels comferting to me. And In an early child hood phychology book that todlers will sleep like that too because they think that something bad is going to happen to it. I agree that it can be a stim!

Also I did some odd weird and creepy things when I was a little girl. Some times to other girls because i didn't know what I was doing.

You're right about that. Still, I haven't heard anyone put it that way. These days, it seems like they talk about this kind of thing EVERYWHERE. When I was a kid, they really didn't.

Steve