Excessive Anger/Am I a bad person?

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thanks steve. as always you're great. i'll try that...right now hes buging me about addind him back to my friends list. i'm sorry you ate alone....i would have sat with you.

That's nice to know. I would have respected your space and wishes also, and would have been quiet. Frankly, after you broke up with him, he even lost the right to touch you in any way more than a friend of yours could be expected to. I know though that you, like myself, probably don't generally like being touched like that anyway. Heck, if not for some people bumping into me, and a few inconsiderate touches, the closest I have come to touching anyone, or having them touch me, at my jobs has been shaking hands. And that is only done on meeting, and leaving, SOMETIMES.

Steve

Both horrid ages in my experience and with many I know.
I wouldn't worry too much over it, he'll learn hopefully and you'll move along.

There should never be a second chance if you are hit. Ever. I'm a firm believer in second chances for absolutely everything except for hitting. Violent tendencies don't go away without some sort of extreme life experience. I used to be very violent. I couldn't help it. I could usually hide it, but when the anger came, the fist flew without my knowledge. It is still a struggle for me, but I've changed things so that I don't really get angry anymore.