goatfish57 wrote:
Try to remember that they will pass. Fill your head with amusing thoughts and happy songs. I like to go walking and goof around with the dogs. There are many mistakes I made in my life. Things that I could have done better. Big social mistakes that can not be undone. This is life and we are not perfect. Try to forgive yourself and make peace with your demons.
When I am vulnerable, the automatic negative thoughts return. I try to find ways to push them aside, to forgive myself and make peace with them. It is a work in progress.
"Forgive yourself" I'm terrible for tormenting myself with past mistakes. I really like the saying. "Forgive yourself" I need to be kinder to myself. A friend said this to me. I need to stop being hard on myself.