Adult providers only understand mood and anxiety
I honestly feel like one of those 'terminator' style view screens.
No, I don't see that specifically, but I literally do have a grid of sorts in my head that checks for all markers and comparative values.
What's funny about your analogy: Can't seem to do that with spaces I inhabit. I have the worst sense of direction. My dad? You could fly him for hours, blindfolded, spin him around until dizzy and he'd still find his way out of anywhere to where he wanted to go. He's got the brain of a freaking migratory bird.
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EQ -- 13
Aspie Quiz -- 186 out of 200
AQ: 42
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No time to quote, but here are a couple of things:
1.) There may not be other resources for many people. There are just now becoming people who are therapists that do understand and have been trained. But, for adults, they are still few and far between.
2.) Neurologists are not required if the above is met. And, the people who are leading the way are neurologist and Psych. Docs that are learning. You don't have to know all about the wiring to work with a lot of things. Understanding what a sensory overload is helps. Understanding the binary, black/white thinking helps. All of that does not require a neurologist.
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MissAlgernon
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If you want to get perfectly adapted compensations of your weaknesses, you need complete assessment of how your brain works, including its biology. I got dozens of tests and even fMRIs. I even took part in experiments about specific brain areas, and as this was research, I got them all for free. I can take part in experimental therapies and be among the very first to benefit from them. I can see the results now, and i hope to benefit from new things in the future. Of course a psychiatrist is better than nothing, but I wouldn't expect half as many good results from even the best psychiatrist in the world.
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\Dunno where you got your tests done, but really, that is way outside many people's ability to pay or even locate. You can wish for that, but it ain't there.
As you said, someone trained is better than a neurologist. Simply, even that is rare these days. And, will be for a while until people really start to get it that there are adults who need this too. Not just kids.
And, it's a mess.
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RAADS-R -- 213.3
FQ -- 18.7
EQ -- 13
Aspie Quiz -- 186 out of 200
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The issue isn't understanding the need. The issue is who pays for it?
Or, to put it another way, what services can politicians cut to justify lower taxes? Or not raising them?
HARTFORD — Gov. Dannel P. Malloy ordered more than $65 million in state budget cuts Wednesday that hit social services heavily.
The issue isn't understanding the need. The issue is who pays for it?.
While it is an issue.n It is not the case with me. My insurance will cover a therapist. I just have to find one that specializes in Asperger's. They are rare. But, in NYC, they are there.
But, many places are not like NYC. They just don't have the services period.
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Aspie Quiz -- 186 out of 200
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Look at your cell phone

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Look at your cell phone

An example of our typical black and white/binary thinking is that 'staring inappropriately' does not mean 'Do not look.'
And, I do understand. It's why my life is a living hell right now. I need to be taught that. In five minutes of tutoring on conversational face time, (and more practice....do not think it's fully solved, but I have a handle on it now) things were much better than 6 weeks of "how do you feel."
Next time that gets asked...."Pissed off" is the answer. Maybe they need to hear that.
But, I can tell you this. Mr. 'Zkydz on his best behaviour' no longer an option.
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I had made very clear to my therapist that I wasn't interested in talking about how I felt and was more interested in practical solutions (I was homeless, after all). Thankfully, he got the message and would even jokingly pretend to ask "How does that make you feel?" when I spoke of something distressing, which helped break the tension.
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I do need the CBT. But, I also need the practical first.
But, I really do need it. HUGE abandonment issues....for instance abandoned on US 41 in St. Augustine by my mother because I was tired of being a punching bag for her husband. Fortunately, I did make it back to my Dad's....but, it does kinda stick with you.
So, yeah...CBT needed. Practical first though because I gotta get back to work.
And, on a personal note....how's things going beneficii? I remember you going through a very tough time. Things better?
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So, on the idea of practical and how illuminating it can be.
I'm re-watching last night's "The Blacklist". It's nothing but talking heads for a while in the beginning. So, I just realized I instinctively, even while watching TV, usually look at the 'nose/mouth' area.
So, I do it naturally. But, just a little while with the right person and I find out it's ok after all to do it the way I want to do it naturally.
For me, understanding mechanisms makes all the differences. I now have one coping mechanism that I understand and can employ. Outside feedback helps me learn in a way I cannot do internally. I've proven that for 55 years LOL
But, that one little thing actually made my day better today.
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EQ -- 13
Aspie Quiz -- 186 out of 200
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But, the weirdos, yeah... I was prime cut at that time. But I was 14, with a suitcase in a polyester leisure suit on a hot June day. LOL
But, I made it to my dad's by way of hitchhiking to a bus station. One of the few times I wasn't in the presence of someone trying to maul me.
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Look at your cell phone

An example of our typical black and white/binary thinking is that 'staring inappropriately' does not mean 'Do not look.'
And, I do understand. It's why my life is a living hell right now. I need to be taught that. In five minutes of tutoring on conversational face time, (and more practice....do not think it's fully solved, but I have a handle on it now) things were much better than 6 weeks of "how do you feel."
Next time that gets asked...."Pissed off" is the answer. Maybe they need to hear that.
But, I can tell you this. Mr. 'Zkydz on his best behaviour' no longer an option.
Thanks, It is all about being subtle and aware. I really needed to think about how I observe the world and how I might be perceived. A few small changes may be enough.
Your insight is very helpful
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