Joe90 wrote:
I think most Aspies struggle at reading facial expressions, but I've proven to myself and to others that I can read facial expressions from instinct.
I found that I had a baseline of instinctive or relatively quickly learned facial expressions (the easy ones admittedly) and if given a context- I am VERY good at this like those facial reading test online- I score mostly perfectly- the catch it I learned this a la the temple grandin movie, I took pictures of people's faces (becoming NT was my most intense (and futile) special interest at the time and my parents tried real hard to train me...), and memorized their faces exactly and then envisioned what they would look like on different ethnic minorities and then tried them in the mirror myself FOR HOURS OVER AND OVER, every single day for years (when I was young), but I became VERY good at reading a large range of faces- however, I realized some flaws over the years in my facial recognition data-base/program if you will.
1.) if it is context-less randomly generated expressions- I bomb it, can't read them. I can basically only read "happy" or like "crying now" or suuuuuper basic stuff (I had to do this for a class.... and I was SO ashamed because I couldn't do it and every just stopped turned and stared and me- literally the whole class and whispered loudly "the f**k is wrong with her? Is she stupid? What a b***h she's saying the wrong stuff on purpose!" Then I began to hyperventilate haha!
2.)If I haven't it or something similar before- NOPE i have to ask no way around it or else I will not know....
3.)If sensory overload/overwhelmed
4.) cultural context is different- like for a non-western English speaking country- it's all like ghibberish again!
I also studied cartoons and watched lots of commercials and built up a passive/active data bank of patterns of behavior/expected reaction to a sequence of facial contortions, even if I had a hard time pining down the displayed facial expression.