androbot01 wrote:
That's his business, of course, but I couldn't help but wonder at his weighing of the pros and cons. Is it truly better to have to move because of a ridiculous phobia than it is to take medication to deal with it. To my mind he was avoiding the problem by ignoring a good solution. So, I left him to his anxiety and went back to bed.
But why do people not want to take medication for mental illness? Why do they think they will be less of who they are? I take a lot of meds and I find that I am able to be myself with them rather than being crippled by illness.
He may not perceive himself as crippled, or at least not as crippled as you may perceive him to be.
And different people weigh the pros and cons differently. Moving may, to him, be a much smaller thing than taking medication -- the fact that for you moving would be a way bigger thing than taking medication doesn't change that. Everyone is different. It's his life and his experience you're talking about, so he is the only person who can ever know whether or not taking medication truly is harder or a bigger deal for him than taking medication.
I would not assume he was "avoiding the problem" just because he rejected your proposed solution. Perhaps if there was a solution he was more comfortable with, he would try it.
androb01 wrote:
Does a person with high blood pressure become not as much themselves when they take pills to regulate it?
That's not necessarily a fair comparison -- high blood pressure medication may not have an affect on a person's mental state (not saying it never would, there are medicines used for both lowering blood pressure and dealing with neurological problems, like guanfacine .... anything that changes your body chemistry can have an effect on your mind), but psychoactive drugs are specifically designed to have such effects.
A person's mental state is often connected in some way to their sense of self, whereas their blood pressure likely isn't. So for some people it's a different thing to take a medication to deliberately change your mental state than it is to take a medication to change something else (even if the latter might end up having an unanticipated affect on your mental state.....probably any unintended psychoactive effect would be just one of many side effects you'd be hoping to not experience, if you wanted only to change your blood pressure and were perfectly happy with your mental state the way it was).
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