Hello. I don't know what option to choose, but if someone explains to me what this would be, I will vote for it.
So for me, what happened was I was seeing a psychiatrist because of social anxiety originally, but it evolved to other conditions. But after seeing my psychiatrist for like a year, she was like "You seem to show signs of autism". And I thought to myself because the people I know with autism didn't seem anywhere close to me, so I told her no. She asked me again, and I said no. She asked me because I was obsessed with mental illness, so she expected me to know if something was wrong with my mental health. Finally, by the third time, she said "Do you think you have autism?". And at that time, I told her "Maybe". Then, after I did research on it, I concluded that I did, in fact, most likely had autism. So I made her a list of the reasons why I thought so. She said she couldn't diagnose me, and my mom said I didn't have it. So a year later, I told my parents I wanted an assessment (a psycho-educational assessment to be exact) because I thought I also had a learning disability. I knew I showed so many signs of autism at this point, and realized that I struggled a lot socially. So I basically knew I had autism, I just wanted to be diagnosed for school and accommodation purposes, along with the fact that I would never know if I was actually right or not. So I got an assessment, and was told I have autism and a learning disability. So for me, it went like this:
"I didn't suspect autism until my pdoc told me she suspected. Then after denying for a while, I suspected I did. And then I got officially diagnosed."
I technically would have never known that I had autism if my psychiatrist didn't point it out, and if I did figure it out, it would have been a lot harder later because I'm 16 right now, and was diagnosed at 16. I know it's harder to diagnose at 18 for many people.
So this is my diagnosis story.