starkid wrote:
strings wrote:
Speaking as one whose career has been in the STEM area, I think my tendencies towards concrete thinking and abstract thinking are somewhat "compartmentalised." That is to say, in areas of human and social interactions I display all the traditional ASD traits of awkwardness, taking people too literally, and so on. These social areas are outside my comfort zone.
I don't understand; does social interaction require much abstract thinking? It seems to me that it requires far more concrete thinking than abstract: one is acting in the moment with specific people who have specific personalities and say and do specific things to which one is expected to respond directly and specifically. It's a concrete experience of seeing, hearing, and responding, not a theory or model that one has to imagine.
I am uncomfortable in social interactions, and I adopt a rather literal and concrete way of thinking, maybe as a defence mechanism. So I cannot resist correcting people when they say "who" when they should have said "whom," I correct people when they say "in a word" and they actually said two words, and so on. I often fail to catch on to a remark that is intended to be sarcastic, because I take it literally. I like to see the rules being followed. My impression is that this kind of concrete thinking is not what is expected in a "normal" social interaction. I think when NTs interact socially, there is probably a more flexible set of rules, with many allowable exceptions.
Once I am involved in my own thoughts and my own work, I can follow the logic of the mathematics I am working with, and I can know that it follows a strict set of rules, and yet there is a freedom to explore ideas, and test new possibilities. Ultimately, it has to be tested against the concrete rules, but while looking into possibilities, there is a freedom to imagine "what if...". The equations don't talk back to me, and object if I take liberties. So I feel more at home, more comfortable, when I express myself freely in my work.